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A NaPro Doctor is closer than you think – and 3 other Facts You Knew Regarding NaPro Technology

Today I want to introduce you to Dr. Monique Ruberu.

Dr. Monique Ruberu, author of Rising With Roses: A Story of Renewal and Lessons Learned  and a very good friend of mine.

Believe me when I tell you this, Dr. Monique Ruberu is someone that will inspire you to love God and others more.

She is a true servant of Christ. A kind soul. A fantastic doctor and one living example of how God will provide the time you need to serve Him and live a joyful life as a Christian.

We spoke on Facebook Live the other week (although I made a technical mistake, so only some of our conversation went live smh). You can view and or listen to that conversation here: Prayer Wine Chocolate Presents: Dr. Monique Ruberu

Follow Dr. Monique Ruberu on YouTube!

You don’t have to live near a NaPro doctor to get NaPro care.

Thanks to telemedicine and coaching options, you can live miles away from the nearest NaPro physician, and still receive treatment.

Almost 10 years ago, I could not find one NaPro doctor in my area – which is a city that has uncountable hospitals and universities.

When I needed a doctor that believed in NFP and NaPro – I literally had to drive on a dirt road ( okay, gravel, but still) to get there.

Now, there are more choices in the Philadelphia area – and thanks to technology, if you are still not within driving distance to a NaPro physician, you can still get the care and guidance needed for your health and fertility that was not readily available 10 years ago.

Coaching Sessions provide a unique opportunity for patients outside the Pennsylvania area to have a private internet based consultation with Dr Ruberu. (National and International Appointments available)

She will listen to your concerns and provide a detailed consult summary including possible treatment strategies that you can present to your local provider or pursue independently. 

1. NFP and NaPro Medicine offer so much more than avoiding or achieving pregnancy

If you are dealing with abnormal bleeding,

irregular cycles, PMS symptoms, PCOS, infertility, 

vaginal infections or any other concern please reach out to a NaPro physician, and if you are not sure who to turn to, I strongly suggest Dr. Monique Ruberu – you can connect with her at NaturalWomensHealth.com

2. NaPro Doctors provide treatment for Postpartum Depression, PMS, recurring miscarriages and more.

I know, it sounds like the first fact I shared. But it’s important to realize this is not just gynecological care – this is general and overall quality of life healthcare.

PMS is real. Symptoms that effect your mood and therefore closest relationships might just need treatment.

It’s extremely important to get your blood work done and a NaPro physician can help you navigate that process.

Many women think taking Vitex or progesterone supplements are the solution, but without getting blood work analyzed by a NaPro physician, there is not a way to get effective, accurate and reliable treatment.

Taking care of your health can also help your marriage.

Your mental health and emotional well-being could be causing other problems in your life that could be solved and healed by having a NaPro physician examine your blood work and provide some advice.

It’s worth looking into.

You can email Drruberumd@gmail.com

3. There is a NaPro alternative to Planned Parenthood – check out Natural Women’s Health

Dr. Monique Ruberu is a true advocate for life. Her desire is to provide life affirming gynecologic care for women at high risk for abortion.

I’ve heard it said before that when a woman is out of work or is simply uninsured, Planned Parenthood provides care they need in those difficult times.

Dr. Ruberu wants to give these women a life affirming option. A place to go where they smell aromatherapy candles and hear comforting Christian music, rather than a place that often makes women feel like the walls are closing in on them.

You can help support this dream by supporting the Ladies Love Life organization. One way is to purchase a cute sweatshirt or mug

What now?

1. Share this post!

2. Contact Dr. Monique Ruberu and set up a coaching session!

3. Buy a Ladies Love Life product and support a great cause!

4. Read Rising With Roses and be inspired!

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Check out the latest video where Sara from To Jesus Sincerely attempts to convince me to HOMESCHOOL!

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“Diana” was 17 and in high school.  She thought she may have been pregnant, but just to make absolutely sure, she went to Planned Parenthood to find out.  She felt like the walls were closing in on her.  She sat in the examination room and heard the words she did not want to hear: “Yes, you are pregnant”. “Diana” wanted to cry.  The look on her face said exactly that.  The nurse said, “you know, you can have an abortion.”  “Diana” thought immediately, “well that would solve my problem”.

Just last year I found out there are scores of crisis pregnancy centers within driving distance of my home.  Until then, I’m not sure I ever heard of a “crisis pregnancy center“.  If I did – I had no idea what they did or why someone would go there.  I had no idea HOW MUCH HELP is out there.

I was 39 years old when I started to realize the abundant numbers of organizations that have the resources – financial, emotional and anything else a pregnant woman needs.

Then I thought, if I don’t know places like these exist – then many women don’t know they exist.

I don’t know YOUR situation.  I have not walked a mile or even a city block in your shoes. But I do know there is help – and I want to let you know that

there are people out there that will:

help you parent,

help you think about and consider an open adoption plan

help you out of an abusive relationship

give you help anonymously

help you finish school

help you get a job

help you with an addiction

If you are pregnant, and your parents want you to have an abortion . . .

Voice your opinion to someone you can trust.  A guidance counselor might be a good start. Calling one of these organizations and tell them the situation you are facing.  Most likely, if you give your parents time, they will be happy you were extremely vocal.  BUT, they need time.

That is the tricky part.  They need time to feel every emotion – anger, sadness, fear – so in the mean time, make a phone call.  Project Cuddle allows you to be anonymous and is national.  Guiding Star is a home in the Philadelphia area that provides so much support it blows me away. This organization will help you get on your feet – without any government assistance.  Absolutely amazing.  Here is another list of resources: Pro-Life Union.

Call these organizations and “buy time”.  Your parents will eventually come around.  Don’t give up praying.  Don’t give up hoping. And remember – it does matter that you are the one that is pregnant.  Not your mom, or your dad, or your guardian.

But . . . you are right.  I don’t know what YOU are going through.  Perhaps you are pregnant, and your parents don’t know – and you want to keep it that way . . .

Again, call Project Cuddle.  They offer anonymous help.  You don’t have to tell them your name.

Remember Diana from the beginning of the article?  She didn’t want to tell her parents either.  She was scared.  She didn’t want to disappoint them.  She didn’t want them to become so angry they became violent.  She didn’t want them to hate her boyfriend.

Since I don’t know what thoughts, fears and feelings you have going on – the best advice I can give you is to call one of these numbers and talk it out.

PHONE NUMBERS TO CALL

More options

800-395-HELP

The people answering these phones have helped so many girls in situations like yours – and in situations that are completely unlike yours.  I would say call.  You can always hang up.

Maybe you are way beyond “what your parents think” years.  Maybe your boyfriend says he’s not ready.

And you love him.  And you don’t want to break up.

I know I’m a total stranger here – but I can tell you, the abortion is not going to strengthen the relationship.  I have a feeling many women can vouch for that statement.  I hope those women comment under this article.  I’m asking you to trust me on this one.  You standing your ground on this issue will only empower you.  It will not make or break your relationship. You can do this.

Maybe you’re not with the father anymore . . .

Maybe the father is married . . .

Maybe you were raped (and that is not fair or right at all) It’s not fair. It’s not fair to you.  It’s not fair to the baby.

Maybe I didn’t say any circumstance that you can relate too.

All I can do is ask you to call some numbers and ask for what other options are out there if you choose not to have an abortion.  Many of these crisis pregnancy centers stay open because everyone who works there is a volunteer.  They are not getting paid.  The same can not be said by those working at planned parenthood – or any other clinic or hospital that provides abortions.

I beg you to seek life for your child.  Consider parenting. Consider an adoption plan.

The best thing about an adoption plan – is that’s what it is – a plan.  Plans can change. An adoption plan does not become a permanent decision until after the baby is born and you sign the papers.  That gives you more time to think about it.

Abortions are not as flexible.  When it’s done, the baby is gone.  The memory will not disappear.

Don’t worry that your baby might be sick.*  Don’t worry what anyone else will say or think. Don’t worry that your life will change drastically.

You are a strong, beautiful woman.

Your baby – whether you are two days pregnant, two months or twenty weeks – is beautiful.

Just like you.

Stay strong. Stay brave.

May the Lord give you what you desire the most.

Love, hugs and prayers,

Amy

p.s.”Diana” didn’t have the abortion.

Let Me Live Song and Video

*If your baby is sick (if your doctor is recommending “interrupting” the pregnancy, or suggesting termination) there are organizations that can provide you loving help.  Check out Be Not Afraid and Lily’s Gift)

Need help until the baby is 3 years old?  Not sure what to do?  Call this Woman’s Center

If you are considering adoption – that is very brave!  I have another post for you! From My Heart: The 10 things I want all women considering adoption to hear . . .

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