Comments on: Five Ways to Support Your Child’s Birthmother https://prayerwinechocolate.com/five-ways-to-support-your-childs-birthmother/ a spiritual journey to motherhood & beyond Thu, 31 May 2018 18:11:52 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: Mary https://prayerwinechocolate.com/five-ways-to-support-your-childs-birthmother/#comment-3998 Fri, 03 Nov 2017 01:21:15 +0000 https://www.prayerwinechocolate.com/?p=9678#comment-3998 I found my children’s birthmothers both needed to be “mothered” through the process. Just understanding, empathy, a listening and compassionate ear — what a good mother does –because neither of them had family support in their decisions. I also still send photos and updates twice a year– after 16 years– because I will be forever grateful for these two priceless gifts.
Just let your heart lead you. It’s a stressful process for everyone but pray for the grace to give emotional support to the birthmothers, because they need it. Brave women.

]]> By: Amy https://prayerwinechocolate.com/five-ways-to-support-your-childs-birthmother/#comment-2131 Sat, 19 Nov 2016 03:50:16 +0000 https://www.prayerwinechocolate.com/?p=9678#comment-2131 In reply to Emily Bell.

Yes Emily, let’s connect! Thank you for reading and leaving a comment!! Looking forward to talking to you soon!

]]> By: Emily Bell https://prayerwinechocolate.com/five-ways-to-support-your-childs-birthmother/#comment-2129 Sat, 19 Nov 2016 03:39:02 +0000 https://www.prayerwinechocolate.com/?p=9678#comment-2129 Oh man, where do I start. Sometimes I am great at this and sometimes I fail. One thing I focus on in trying to love and support my daughter’s and son’s birth moms is remembering a something that my daughter’s birth grandfather said to her birth mom. “Honey, they love her as much as you do!” The opposite is true. She lover our daughter as much as we do. And so it’s our gratitude and respect for her tough choice that helps me show love to this special lady. I agree that pRaymer is the key. And trying to remember thete is no manual for open adoption so just go with the flow. Sometimes it is really hard and sometimes it’s really easy. But always it is what feels right. Part of my kids would be missing if I didn’t have the gift of open adoption in their lives!
I will email you soon as I keep running into you on social media and I feel like our paths may be crossing for a reason when I was also given your name today. Thanks for all you ate doing to support these special women!

]]> By: Amy https://prayerwinechocolate.com/five-ways-to-support-your-childs-birthmother/#comment-2069 Sat, 12 Nov 2016 13:21:05 +0000 https://www.prayerwinechocolate.com/?p=9678#comment-2069 In reply to Maria Malone.

Thank you Maria! God Bless you too! So happy to have met you and love your organization Adoption is a Loving Option!!

]]> By: Maria Malone https://prayerwinechocolate.com/five-ways-to-support-your-childs-birthmother/#comment-2068 Sat, 12 Nov 2016 00:12:59 +0000 https://www.prayerwinechocolate.com/?p=9678#comment-2068 Great article Amy!!! Thanks for posting and doing all that you do to promote the beauty of adoption!!! God bless you!!

]]> By: Amy https://prayerwinechocolate.com/five-ways-to-support-your-childs-birthmother/#comment-2065 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 03:22:55 +0000 https://www.prayerwinechocolate.com/?p=9678#comment-2065 In reply to Jo-Lynne Shane.

Thanks Jo-Lynne. I am sure birthmothers love hearing how grateful people are for them!

]]> By: Jo-Lynne Shane https://prayerwinechocolate.com/five-ways-to-support-your-childs-birthmother/#comment-2064 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 03:18:44 +0000 https://www.prayerwinechocolate.com/?p=9678#comment-2064 These are great tips. I haven’t adopted but I have several friends who have, and I know how grateful they are to birthmothers who choose adoption.

]]> By: Amy https://prayerwinechocolate.com/five-ways-to-support-your-childs-birthmother/#comment-2063 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 01:55:09 +0000 https://www.prayerwinechocolate.com/?p=9678#comment-2063 In reply to Megan.

Thank you Megan <3

]]> By: Megan https://prayerwinechocolate.com/five-ways-to-support-your-childs-birthmother/#comment-2062 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 01:12:32 +0000 https://www.prayerwinechocolate.com/?p=9678#comment-2062 I love the idea that you are praying for a birthmother you do not know yet, that is so very kind and sweet. I hope your prayers for another child are answered soon.

]]> By: LaNeshe https://prayerwinechocolate.com/five-ways-to-support-your-childs-birthmother/#comment-2061 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 01:01:45 +0000 https://www.prayerwinechocolate.com/?p=9678#comment-2061 Great resources!

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