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Sep 4, 2016
Adoption

Mother Teresa: A Saint For Adoptive Families

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Bill Murray and Melissa McCarthy starred in a film together titled “Saint Vincent”.  One of the main characters of the film, Oliver, is the 12 year-old adopted son of Melissa McCarthy’s character, Maggie.

Maggie and Oliver move into the house next door to Vincent (played by Bill Murray).  Since Maggie is working a new job that is demanding more hours than she would like, Vincent becomes Oliver’s unlikely companion and care-taker.

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In the film, Oliver’s character was assigned a project in which he must find a real-life person that models a saint.  The director of the film, Ted Melfi, was inspired to make this motion picture from his own personal experience.  The sudden death of his brother led to Melfi adopting his niece.  When his niece was assigned a saint project, she chose to focus on St. William of Rochester and him.  That moment tug his heart strings and lingered in his head, so he decided that it was a story he wanted to tell.

The patron saint of adoption is William of Rochester. Very little is known about William, except that his adopted son, David, murdered him.

I don’t know about you, but this makes me scratch my head and wonder . . . why?  It also makes me feel bad for every adopted child that ever had to do a saint project.  Being adopted has it’s own challenges, and then finding the patron saint was murdered by his adopted son – well, that doesn’t exactly inspire hope.  I can’t imagine what would go through a child’s mind doing that research.  And to top it all off, according to catholic.org, there is no record of Saint William of Rochester’s canonization.

According to an interview with Boston.com;  When Melfi  was asked about what he hoped the audience would take away from the story, he stated:

“What I intended for them to take away is that every human being has value,’’ Melfi says. “A single mom, an old, curmudgeonly vet, a Russian prostitute, a Catholic priest teacher, an adopted boy—every character, every human being has value.’’

It’s not often that we hear that reminder from Hollywood.

As faithful Christians, we know that every human certainly does have value.

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And today, a woman who demonstrated that truth better than anyone I can think of in recent history, Mother Teresa of Calcutta, was canonized a saint.

In his homily at the Mass of Canonization, Pope Francis reminded the world of how Mother Teresa believed in the value of every human life. 

Mother Teresa, in all aspects of her life, was a generous dispenser of divine mercy, making herself available for everyone through her welcome and defense of human life, those unborn and those abandoned and discarded.  She was committed to defending life, ceaselessly proclaiming that “the unborn are the weakest, the smallest, the most vulnerable”.

Pope Francis also reminded us of how Mother Teresa inspired hope in those that felt discouraged and under-valued:

Mother Teresa loved to say, “Perhaps I don’t speak their language, but I can smile”.  Let us carry her smile in our hearts and give it to those whom we meet along our journey, especially those who suffer.  In this way, we will open up opportunities of joy and hope for our many brothers and sisters who are discouraged and who stand in need of understanding and tenderness.

Looking back at Mother Teresa’s life, one can find so many inspiring words and recall many speeches directed towards world leaders.  One in particular comes to mind. On February 3, 1994, Mother Teresa of Calcutta spoke at the National Prayer Breakfast in Washington, DC. Those in attendance included President Bill Clinton, his wife, Hillary and VP Al Gore.

I often read quotes from this speech, such as:

But I feel that the greatest destroyer of peace today is abortion, because it is a war against the child, a direct killing of the innocent child, murder by the mother herself.

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And if we accept that a mother can kill even her own child, how can we tell other people not to kill one another?

But, unknown to many, Mother Teresa continued in that same speech to speak of adoption:

I will tell you something beautiful. We are fighting abortion by adoption – by care of the mother and adoption for her baby. We have saved thousands of lives. We have sent word to the clinics, to the hospitals and police stations: “Please don’t destroy the child; we will take the child.” So we always have someone tell the mothers in trouble: “Come, we will take care of you, we will get a home for your child.” And we have a tremendous demand from couples who cannot have a child – but I never give a child to a couple who have done something not to have a child. Jesus said. “Anyone who receives a child in my name, receives me.” By adopting a child, these couples receive Jesus but, by aborting a child, a couple refuses to receive Jesus.

Please don’t kill the child. I want the child. Please give me the child. I am willing to accept any child who would be aborted and to give that child to a married couple who will love the child and be loved by the child.

From our children’s home in Calcutta alone, we have saved over 3000 children from abortion. These children have brought such love and joy to their adopting parents and have grown up so full of love and joy.

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As an adoptive mother who longs and prays for more children, my heart leaps with gratitude when I read these words.

I want to thank Saint Teresa of Calcutta for speaking about the hope and life adoption provides.  I want to thank her for letting me and all other adoptive parents know that she saw the value in adoption – for everyone involved.

Thank you, Saint Teresa of Calcutta, for speaking of and praising the beauty of adoption.

Thank you, Saint Teresa of Calcutta, for reminding us to love the expectant mother.

Thank you, Saint Teresa of Calcutta, for sharing with the world how adopted children bring love and hope to their parents and they too grow up full of love and joy.

I don’t know what Saint Teresa of Calcutta is the official patron of; but in my heart, she is a patron for adopted children, women who have placed a child with an adoptive family and adoptive parents.

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Saint Teresa of Calcutta, pray for us . . . and thank you.

Love,

Amy

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  1. Kristina says

    September 5, 2016 at 9:21 am

    Phenom post!! I just recently watched St Vincent on HBO. It was a great movie & I appreciate your insight. Though subconiously I might have had some of these thoughts…. I love how you connected everything. Thanks for the info! And what a wonderful back story. I didn’t know all that!!

    • Amy says

      September 5, 2016 at 9:33 am

      Thank you Kristina!!!

  2. KelleyC says

    September 8, 2016 at 9:22 am

    Such a beautiful post! I haven’t seen the movie yet, but I have heard about it. Also, I didn’t know that William of Rochester was the patron saint of adoption. It does make you scratch your head hearing that he’s been murdered by his adopted son. Down the line, my husband and I have talked about adoption to give children (perhaps older children) a chance at knowing that they are loved. They are not unworthy of love, and that there is someone out there to love them.

    • KalleyC says

      September 8, 2016 at 9:23 am

      *sigh* and once again, I forget how to spell my own name….it’s Kalley *smh*

    • Amy says

      September 14, 2016 at 10:32 am

      Thank you

  3. Jessica says

    November 15, 2016 at 9:48 am

    Mother Teresa is so amazing and I have loved the resources that have come out in the wake of her canonization as a saint. Beautiful post!

    • Amy says

      November 15, 2016 at 12:10 pm

      Thank you Jessica!

  4. Jessica says

    November 15, 2016 at 9:50 am

    I have really enjoyed the resources that have come out about Mother Teresa since her canonization as a Saint. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful post!

  5. Mike Femenella says

    August 25, 2017 at 3:24 pm

    Thank you for this! We’re just starting the long road and wondering to which Saint we should turn for help! https://www.gofundme.com/bring-anastasiia-oleksandr-home

    • Amy says

      August 26, 2017 at 7:23 am

      May your road be not so long and not to bumpy! In the end, it’s more than worth it!!! Saint Teresa of Calcutta, pray for Mike and his family!!

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