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Years ago, when I started my first job as a teacher, I heard a quote from Mother (now Saint) Teresa of Calcutta that changed my life.

The quote was something like this, “Smile at one another, this will help you grow to love one another”.

I decided to test out this advice. I walked into my classroom and smiled at two students who clearly did not like me. I forced the smile, and I looked ridiculous. Those students looked at each other and laughed at me.

I continued to do this each day and eventually we were all laughing at me.

Those two girls and I developed such a beautiful bond! It worked, Mother Teresa’s advice worked! I write much more about this experience here: Mother Teresa’s Advice for Teachers

This Lent, I want to offer you a workbook that was inspired by that experience.

I want you to put your faith into action and see the amazing results that can and will take place.

Be not afraid! Dare to be a better Christian this Lent!

40 Truth or Dares for Lent

This challenge will work best paired with a prayer journal. In the workbook, there are spaces to write about some challenges, checklists for others. Pairing it with a prayer journal will give you the freedom to dive deep into each experience and really reflect and contemplate these beautiful acts of prayer, fasting and almsgiving. If you want to learn more about prayer journaling, take a look at my last post: The Ultimate Guide to Catholic Prayer Journaling in 2025

The Dare to be a Better Christian for Lent Workbook has 40 Challenges listed. Each challenge is inspired by Scripture, Saints and general Christian teachings and beliefs. Here are a few of them:

Truth or Dare #1: Smile

Truth: How often do you smile at people? Who are the last 5 people you smiled at while looking in their eyes?

Dare: Smile at people today. Intentionally look at people and smile at them. Make it weird.

Truth or Dare #4: Serve

Truth: Describe the last time you served or helped someone joyfully.

Dare: Help at least 5 people joyfully today. If you’re not “feeling it” . . . fake it until you make it as they say!

Dare Inspiration: The words of Saint Katharine Drexel:

“If we wish to serve God and love our neighbor well, we must manifest our joy in the service we render to him and them. Let us open wide our hearts. It is joy which invites us. Press forward and fear nothing.”

Truth or Dare #5: Give

Truth: When was the last time you gave money to a charity? What charity was it? How much did you give?

Dare: Give today. Go to a fast food place and pay extra – tell the cashier it’s for the next person’s order.

Dare inspiration: Sacred Scripture: Acts 20:35

“I have shown you in every way, by laboring like this, that you must support the weak. And remember the words of the Lord Jesus, that He said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.“

Truth or Dare #8: Nourish your relationship with God

Truth: When was the last time you opened up a Bible and read it for 10 minutes or more?

Dare: Spend 10 minutes today reading the Bible. Don’t read it on your phone, pick up an actual Bible and read it for 10 minutes or more.

Dare inspiration: The words of Saint Jerome:

“When we pray we speak to God; but when we read, God speaks to us.”

Truth or Dare # #15: Fast

Truth: When was the last time you made a sacrifice for God or for poor sinners?

Dare: Drink only water today; offer this sacrifice to God.

Purchase the Dare to Be a Better Christian for Lent Truth or Dare Challenge now!

Double Dare Challenge

I want this to be something you can do all Lent. I don’t want you to feel overwhelmed or not make it through the whole season. However, on some days if you are feeling extra “into” it, I DOUBLE DARE you to do both the truth and the dare.

Use your journal to respond to the TRUTH in the morning and take the dare during the day.

At the end of the day, write how the dare went:

Did you do it?

Was it easy?

Did something unexpected happen?

Recording your response in a prayer journal to the “Truth Question” or the “Dare Challenge” will help you spend more time in reflection and go deeper into your faith and prayer time.

Why purchase the Dare to Be a Better Christian for Lent workbook?

When you purchase this digital product, you will get all 40 Truth or Dare challenges.

The workbook can be printed out, so you have that physical reminder in your sight each day.

Truth or Dares can be fun! Each challenge will allow you to spend time thinking about your faith, Jesus’ ultimate sacrifice and provide opportunities to show love for God and others!

Purchase the Truth or Dare Workbook here!

40 (More) Prayer Journal Prompts

Printable Catholic Coloring Pages

How to Plan Your Own Prayer Wine Chocolate Retreat Guidebook (ON SALE!)

when you purchase any of those, you will receive a free copy of Dare to Be a Better Christian for Lent!

Get it now! 40 Truth or Dare Challenges for Lent!

Free resources for Lent!

The Dare to Be a Better Christian for Lent workbook is brand new, but here are some old but good Lenten resources from me for free!

When you sign up for my email newsletter, you receive two free Lenten resources:

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The Ultimate Guide to Catholic Prayer Journaling in 2025

I started this blog to talk about adopting a child (or children) without hiring an adoption agency and to share Catholic gift ideas, especially around Christmas.

But, I think God had something else in mind.

That something else, was prayer journaling.

Since I started this blog (8 years ago?), I have written over 100 posts about prayer journaling. On top of that, God used me to write two prayer journals for young Catholics! I think the fact that I am an author of two books is proof there is a God. I could not do that without Him!

I think it’s time I rounded up the best, and gave you the how, why and when all in one place.

Let’s start with the why.

Why Prayer Journal or Why Pray Using a Journal?

I started using a prayer journal when I was at rock bottom in my life. I was single, heartbroken, lonely and lacked hope. In my arrogance I think one reason why I started writing down my prayers was to “spell things out for God”. Well, God used my act of writing down prayer requests as a way to spell a few things out to me.

Journaling without prayer has been studied and researched in the last 40 years. The scientific findings demonstrate decreased anxiety, improved self-awareness and many other benefits.

I dove much deeper into this topic when I interviewed Catholic Psychologist Dr. Matt Breuninger. You can watch this discussion on YouTube or read the highlights in this post, What does a Catholic Psychologist Say About the Benefits of Prayer Journaling?

This discussion with Dr. Breuninger is really enlightening. He shares many of the psychological and spiritual benefits of using a prayer journal in ways I could never naturally articulate. You can read or listen to this discussion! I share some of the reasons in my own words below, but his insight offers more from an academic and simply a different point of view. Watch or listen here.

I also share my own research in a post I wrote before this discussion titled: 5 Benefits of Prayer Journaling

One of the major reasons why psychologists recommend people to journal is because it can help alleviate symptoms of anxiety and depression.

This is really what motivated me to start a prayer journal. I lacked hope.

I did not understand why things in my life were the way the were.

I was sad . . . really sad.

Reasons to use a prayer journal:

1. It really does help with depression and anxiety
2. Using a prayer journal helps you work out problems in your life
3. It slows you down in this extremely fast paced world.
4. It helps you hear God’s voice.
5. It is an act of love for God because you spend more time with Him.

The way I used my journal is “unconventional”. What I mean by that is – I wasn’t taught how to journal. The only piece of advice I had walking in to it was “write 5 things down that you’re grateful for”. This was something a friend had told me her therapist advised – and before I sought professional help myself.

When I started prayer journaling (cough, cough) 25 years ago, I had NEVER heard of Lectio Divina. Years later (and after I started this blog), I attended a class on prayer journaling by a Catholic organization. The woman teaching talked much about this new to me practice.

As I sat and listened, I thought, “wow, she’s really smart”.

I also thought, “I’m bored”.

Don’t get me wrong, Lectio Divina is a beautiful way to pray, but for me, it was one of MANY ways of using a prayer journal.

Although my “why” start a prayer journal began with depression and despair, I found that the hope it could bring me led me to a much brighter place than any other style or method of praying had led me before.

Perhaps I am not wording that correctly. Prayer journaling opened my heart up to see more of God and His Love in my life. It allowed me to dream again. Hope and Faith is powerful stuff, and I enjoy experiencing it.

With God, all things are possible.

I stopped looking in the past and started looking toward the future – with hope.

My prayer time slowed down and I spent more time in prayer because writing takes longer than thinking or talking out loud.

It was a great blessing and I want to share that blessing with you.

How to Prayer Journal or how to pray using a journal

Some people tend to be intimidated by the first page of the journal. I noticed this on a discussion thread in a Facebook group. I chimed in and said, “I just put a picture (holy card) of Jesus on the first page!

I was moved by how many were in agreement with this “first page anxiety” so I wrote a post to help others! Read it here: How to Start a Prayer Journal in 3 Easy Steps

The first step, after picking out your prayer journal (a cute notebook) is to find a holy card that you love and glue or tape it to the first page. Personally, I pick one with Jesus.

After that, write God a letter. How you start should be how you feel most comfortable talking to God.

Dear God,

Dear Jesus,

In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, Amen.

These are just three examples of how to start your letter.

Then, remember to be polite. Thank God for something. After that, pour out your heart. Try not to worry about someone picking it up and reading it. If you are concerned about that, I have a few tips and tricks below to help you ;).

After you empty your heart to God, close it and walk away. This is a physical act of “giving it to God” or surrendering to Jesus.

The next time you pick up your journal could be days or weeks later. It could be the next day. You might want to write another letter because you forgot to tell Him this one thing . . .

You do not have to use a journal every day.

I often wonder if people think that’s a “rule”. Who’s rule? It’s your journal! Using a journal to pray doesn’t mean you’ll stop mental prayer, going to Mass, praying the Rosary or Grace Before Meals. It’s there to help you if you want it. It’s not an obligation or another thing for your to-do list.

For me, it’s a way to relax and be creative.

It’s a way for me to be less distracted during prayer.

I use it because my mind wanders and I want to give God the gift of my attention and I want to really try to hear God’s voice in my very noisy mind.

I had a sticker collection as a child and I love that there are so many small businesses creating Catholic stickers. Collecting them and putting them in my journal gives me feelings of nostalgia and joy!

This one below is from Just Love Prints!

I created this free download with you that has 40 Prayer Journal Prompts! You can use it any time of year or for Lent!

I also created a more elegant looking download with more prayer journal prompts. You can get that here.

Prayer Journal Tips and Tricks

This post gave my favorite tricks: 3 Prayer Journal Hacks You Will Love

My favorite is the one where you hide what you are afraid someone may pick up and read.

I have used a coloring page to glue right over a novena intention.

I have also used stickers.

When do you find the time to journal?

You don’t find the time to journal, you make the time to journal.

This is a gift of giving God your time.

I don’t journal every day. I don’t think there was ever a phase in my life where I journaled every single day.

A prayer journal is a way to spend time with the Lord but it’s not the ONLY WAY!

I often bring a journal to Eucharistic Adoration with me. There are many weeks when this might be the only time I write in my journal.

But lately I have been thinking about the quote from Saint Francis de Sales:

“Everyone of us needs half an hour of prayer every day, except when we are busy—then we need an hour.”

God often reminds me that is not subject to time. There are days when I have given Him time “I didn’t have” and the day went a lot smoother. He can create time when, according to us, there is none.

Miracles Happen When You Pray (with a Journal)

Miracles really do happen. God gives them to us, but I think when we journal, we notice them more often.

I started my prayer journal when I was heartbroken and hoping for the vocation of marriage. I continued to pray when I went through infertility. I have seen little winks from God by pouring my heart out to Him and telling Him my hopes and dreams.

I want you to experience this too.

Help younger boys and girls start a prayer journal

In this incredibly fast-paced world where kids and teens are “writing” and posting on social media, they need to learn the practice of prayer journaling.

Dr. Sax, author of The Collapse of Parenting, Girls on the Edge and Boys Adrift

described in a talk how girls who would go write in a diary were living; but girls who write and post on social media are performing.

These actions are not the same.

If you want to help your pre-teen or young teen to start journaling, I wrote books for them!

Be Yourself: a Journal for Catholic Girls and Be Yourself: a Journal for Catholic Boys are available on Amazon, this website, and many others.

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Make sure you download this amazing FREE catalog that I helped put together!!! A Cozy Catholic Christmas Catalog (2024)

Don’t forget about Advent! Here’s the best deal around, but only available for a few days!!

Catholic Advent Bundle

These Catholic shops are Spectacular

Ascension Press

Highly recommend their Great Adventure Bible (See this post for who needs it: 5 People on Your Gift List that Need a Bible)

Ascension has the perfect Stocking Stuffer for you husband, Dad and brother – the newly published

Pocket Guide to Prayer.

Many men know they should pray more or would like to increase their time in prayer, but are not sure where or how to start. This book will help tremendously and simply.

Pocket Guide to Prayer is a beautiful, inspiring book written by Edward and Beth Sri, with contributor Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, CFR, that gives anyone confidence in knowing God and building a relationship with him. As an “on-ramp” into understanding the various tools for prayer that the Church offers us, this pocket guide will help Catholics build a fulfilled and deeply satisfying prayer life. 

This short but complete guide helps Catholics enter into prayer with more consistency and devotion. It empowers anyone on their faith journey to prioritize daily conversation with God.

A great new option for tweens and young teens who really want to understand the Bible and feel that it is relevant in their lives: Biblical Heroes: Stories of Faith and Courage

Through exploring these timeless narratives, readers not only gain a deeper understanding of the Bible’s stories and key figures, but also learn valuable lessons about courage, compassion, and faith.

Our family’s favorite kids books from Ascension:

My First Interactive Mass Books (highly recommend for little boys ages 3 to 6)

Donuts After Mass: a Tale About Walking With Jesus (my 7 year olds LOVE this and it was much enjoyed by their older brother too!)

Kolbe & Co. Rosaries for the whole family!

We prayed the Rosary as a family the other day and by the end of it my oldest son held up the string where all the beads WERE before we started. The beads had all fallen off.

I had already been thinking about Kolbe & Co’s fidget Rosary for kids – and this made me think, “YEP, we need those”!

Get the kids you love a fidget Rosary or a Glow in the Dark Rosary!

Use coupon code AMY10 for 10% off when you shop at Kolbe & Co!!!

The owner of Kolbe & Co., Erica Maze, is a Catholic convert, wife and mother who’s goal is to create items to help people remember to take a moment during their busy days to PRAY, and always be able to have their Rosary with them!

Have a teenage boy or young adult son? This Everyday Carry Rosary is perfect!

Use coupon code AMY10 for 10% off when you shop at Kolbe & Co!!!

Shining Light Dolls

Whenever you shop from Shining Light Dolls, make sure you include the coupon code PRAYERWINECHOCOLATE

Shining Light Dolls has introduced some new toys this year, and my neighbor and I have decided one of these new gifts is NOT just for kids! There are Jumbo Plushes and I like to call them Catholic Squishmallows! I am going to buy many I think!

Shining Light Doll Plushes are great for all ages. The tiny ones would make a great addition to a tween gift bundle – along with the Be Yourself Journal and some other Catholic goodies!

The newest gift option over at Shining Light Dolls are interlocking puzzle brick sets (called Catholic Brick). They are similar to lego sets and they are for older kids! Do you know anyone who loves playing with Legos? This is a great gift option for him or her! One is included in this giveaway contest!

I am also loving the puzzles for toddlers and my 7 year old son keeps telling me how much he wants the Wooden Catholic Church Playset!

Definitely take a look around the Shining Light Dolls website and grab some really fun toys for your young and young at heart loved ones! (don’t forget the coupon code PRAYERWINECHOCOLATE)

Be a Heart

Be a Heart has some fantastic gifts for girls who love crafts and for little ones who still tend to put toys in their mouths and definitely still wear bibs!

Plus, I enjoy some of Be a Heart’s products too. I love their belt bag, their standing desk calendar and their journals!

The Marian Wristlet is gorgeous – great gift for teens, young adults and women!

The Catholic Fruit of the Spirit Wooden Puzzle is currently sold out, BUT is included in this giveaway! Don’t forget to enter!!!

When shopping at BE A HEART, use coupon code PRAYERWINECHOCOLATE

CATHOLIC GIFT IDEAS FOR FAMILY MEMBERS: DAD AND DAUGHTER

Gifts for Dad and Husband: Prayer book from Ascension

Daughter, age 7: Make your own Rosary kit (Saint Therese’) from Be a Heart and a fidget Rosary from Kolbe & Co.

Kingdom Come Co.

The mission of Kingdom Come Co. is to help children connect with their faith in a fun and meaningful way. This Catholic small business designs and sells high-quality clothing, toys, and other products that incorporate religious themes and messages in a modern and appealing style.

I love the toys for babies, toddlers and pre-school aged children! Take a look at this Galactic Glory Starship: Wooden Shape Sorter toy!!!

With its innovative design, the Galactic Glory Starship offers two toys in one. Firstly, the bottom half is a shape sorting toy, perfect for developing your child’s problem-solving skills and hand-eye coordination. Secondly, the top half is an abacus, which encourages counting and helps develop fine motor skills.

The Galactic Glory Starship wooden shape sorter toy features inspiring Bible verses that remind children of God’s power and wisdom. Additionally, one side of the toy displays Psalm 147. The verse reads “He determines the number of the stars and calls them each by name.”

This shop has SO MANY toys to choose from – plus, fun apparel too! This Saint Nick shirt I plan on ordering today!

12th & Blossom

12th & Blossom is my FAVORITE SHOP for earrings!!!! If you shop from this incredible business, use coupon code AMYBROOKS for 15% off!!!

12th and Blossom creates joyful Catholic designs for a life in bloom. From art prints to jewelry to apparel and more, our gifts showcase the simple beauty of Catholic faith and devotions.

If you have a woman on your list – head to this shop and start adding to cart!

PIETA PAPERIE

My husband and I are swooning over this shop! Catholic wax seals!!?? Yes please!!!

The Founders and creators at Pieta Paperie wants you to know this:

“We create stationery for the sacraments. Our mission is to help Catholics evangelize their loved ones through beauty.”

I met the owners of Pieta Paperie at an event last year and they are just lovely, young Catholics! I love so many of the seals they offer – it’s really difficult to pick just one!

CATHOLIC GIFT IDEAS FOR FAMILY MEMBERS: MOM AND SON

For Mom: Jewelry from 12th & Blossom and Telos; Prayer Wine Chocolate shirt and tumbler; socks from Sock Religious

For Son: Fidget Rosary (or glow in the dark Rosary) from Kolbe & Co.; Be Yourself Journal and Biblical Heroes book from Ascension; Shirt from Sock Religious; toy from Shining Light Dolls.

Telos Art Shop

My favorite necklace shop – and apparently also my daughter’s favorite necklace shop!

My seven year old daughter chose a necklace listed in the Cozy Catholic Christmas Guide for herself and I think it’s the third year in a row my daughter has chosen to put Telos on her list!

Telos is on my list too :). I have my eye on a necklace and a ring!

The simple, small but powerful, Miraculous Medal necklace I wear daily is from Telos (pictured above).

Sock Religious – not just socks!

If you’ve read my gift guides before, you probably know I love Sock Religious Socks!!! The “no-show” socks are my personal favorite!

But, their shirts are literally THE BEST! I love how this business combines humor with evangelization.

I mean, “Don’t be a loser” on a shirt with Saint Anthony???????? Take my money!!

I find that shopping Catholic for my husband and other men is challenging, but this business makes it easier.

My husband will be getting one of these shirts this year!!!

*** Husband, brother, Catholic man gift idea: Shirt from Sock Religious!!!***

Bonus idea: Give Catholic Christmas Cards out this year with the new business owned by the folks over at Sock Religious!! This new shop: OUR HOLY HOME, have given me a 35% off coupon code for you!

Yes, 35% off is you use the coupon code: AMYBROOKS

These cards allow you to insert your family photos, but unlike the secular businesses that do that, there are a variety of holy messages to choose from. Send a Christmas greeting that celebrates Christ in Christmas!

The Cozy Catholic Life

I have been admiring Rosary hangers at The Cozy Catholic Life all year! I think my favorite is the Divine Mercy one (it says “Jesus, I trust in You”, but they are all gorgeous!

I like this gift because I would hang it in my own home and it could be given as a family gift or to a newly married couple.

I also love the sweatshirts, and right now my favorite is the “Ugly Advent Sweater“!

The Cozy Catholic Life Shop has done a great job creating apparel for the whole family and resources that will help you this Advent and all year long. You’ll love the mugs too! Browse the whole shop and have fun filling your cart!

The Shop at Prayer Wine Chocolate

The Be Yourself Journals are still getting fantastic reviews!

William Hemsworth just wrote a whole article about the journal, in it he said:

“Amy did an incredible job of creating reflections that are not only challenging, but engaging. To be honest, the most seasoned Catholic can also benefit from the reflections. The book challenges our boys to become a saint, and challenges them to think about how that can happen. In addition to that, there is great material on how to apply Catholic theology in the real world.“

(Read the whole article on Patheos here)

Purchase a boy’s Be Yourself Journal here!

And Whitney, owner of Abundantly Yours Rosaries, (new Rosary called the Vine Grower!!) left this review on Amazon last week:

“This journal is exactly what I would have spent hours using as a kid. It has tons of different Catholic resources to encourage prayer & help young girls establish a relationship with God. This is my new go to gift idea for first communion, and holidays!!“

Purchase a Girl’s Be Yourself Journal here!

The journals are truly GREAT gifts for the kids you know and love!!! I have people tell me their daughters have two!!!!

For adults, don’t forget Prayer Wine Chocolate sweatshirts, tee shirts and wine tumblers are available and perfect for teachers, friends and relatives!

I honestly wear my Prayer Wine Chocolate hoodie, sweatshirts and t-shirts all the time! They are so comfortable!

Ask for one for Christmas, or just treat yourself!

Wine tumblers are great gifts – fill them with chocolate for an added sweetness!

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Catholic Brick: Saint Michael the Archangel from Shining Light Dolls (Retail price: $39.99)

Fruit of the Spirit Chunk Puzzle from Be a Heart (Retail cost: $28.99 and currently sold out!!)

One Galactic Glory Starship from Kingdom Come Co. (Retail price $35.00)

A pair of earrings from 12th & Blossom (one of a kind, but earrings in this shop range from $12 to $22)

A surprise gift from Sock Religious

A Wax Seal Making DIY Starter Kit with the gun from Pieta Paperie (Retail cost: $65.00)

One copy of Be Yourself: a Journal for Catholic Girls

A physical copy of the Cozy Catholic Christmas Catalog

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Faith is a Tremendous Parachute

As I walked into my grandparents apartment I would greet my Grandpop with a Hi, how are you?

His answer would either be:

TREE-mendous

or

SPEC-tacular!

Using the word tremendous is a tribute to him. Not only because he would say the word, but also the lesson he provided with that simple one word response to a question we hear often.

How are you?

How do you respond to that question?

You would think all these years later, I would be better at responding to it. I’m guilty of saying,
“good” or “well” or even worse . . . just saying okay and listing a complaint!

As I reflect upon my Grandfather’s response, I immediately realize how incredible this man was.

You see, my Grandfather had to have both of his legs amputated. When I was asking him, “how are you” he was bound to a wheelchair- because he had no legs! And that was just one thing in his life that would give him license to say, “eh, I’m okay”.

I’ll keep the other things he was balancing in his life to myself out of respect for my family, but trust me, no one would have faulted him for giving a humdrum answer.

I want to share with you how our Catholic faith has been a gift to me my whole life, but I recognized it most when I suffered from depression in my mid-20’s.

Our secular world understands the power of an attitude of gratitude. Our faith directs us to give thanks. I think that this advice – to be grateful, was only the beginning of how my firm belief in God prevented me from doing the unthinkable.

Gratitude is the first step, not the end in a life of a Christian.

It’s a good first step, but that alone would not have been enough to help me climb out of my season of despair.

Can a Catholic really suffer from depression?

Even though I earned a BS in Psychology, I hesitated and fought with every fiber of my being the idea of going to speak with a counselor.

I mean, when I was feeling down in college, I went to the counselor’s office once or twice, but grown up world? Seeking out a therapist? No way, I didn’t need that.

But thankfully, at the age of 25, when almost all of my friends were engaged or married, I met a couple new friends.

One had a therapist she liked so much, she waited tables to pay her because she wasn’t covered by our insurance. It was this friend that suggested every night I write down 5 things I was grateful for.

Some nights, I had a hard time.

Once I thanked God for Sprite.

At least one other night I stopped at three things.

I was in a rough, dark place.

Another friend I made had gotten married, and by the time her honeymoon was over, her husband was already gone and with someone else. She had married her high school sweetheart, and it ended very quickly.

This heartbreaking situation led her to a therapist. My friend and I would go for walks and talk about our broken hearts and undesirable place in life. Eventually, this friend convinced me to go see her therapist.

I went.

It was HORRIBLE. I did not gel with this woman at all. I felt worse when I left.

But that therapist saw that we were not compatible, and recommended I go see HER therapist!

Which I did. Eventually this new counselor suggested I take medicine to help lift my spirits.

I refused.

I honestly wondered, “is it okay for me to get medication to feel happier?”

I thought, “no one living in Jesus’ time was getting medicine because they felt really sad. What is wrong with me that it’s come to a point where even the therapist can’t help me – she’s just telling me to take medicine??”

I went to a priest and asked him,

“Is it morally wrong for me to take medicine for depression? I mean, no one living in Jesus’ time was looking for a pill to make them feel less sad!”

Father John answered me with words like this:

“Let me tell you what my mom said to me. She said, ‘this world is so fast’. The world today is so much faster than the world Jesus and the Apostles lived in. Our culture and the speed of our modern day technology is affecting our mental health. It’s okay to take medicine if you need it to help you with depression. There is no sin in that.”

I don’t remember his exact words – except him quoting his mother and how she said, “this world that we live in today is so fast . . .” THAT I remember.

And friends, this was before we had smart phones.

Our world is even faster now.

Why refer to your faith as a parachute?

So, I was questioning why I use the term parachute, but as I reflected on this topic, I realized . . .

What do parachutes do?

A parachute slows the body in motion.

As I type this I can hear cars, motorcycles and trucks traveling between 40 to 60 miles an hour down a major road not so far away from my house. In the earlier hours, if the train goes by about a mile away, I can hear that too.

Not more than two feet from where I sit is a small rectangle that can enrapture me in a world of TikTok videos, Instagram reels, YouTube shorts and more.

The speed at which we can physically travel and the speed at which we are observing visual stimuli is like nothing before in human history.

Yet, if we pick up Scripture, God’s word tells us to “Be still and know that I am God.” (Psalm 46:10)

God knows what we need. God knows what is good for us.

Good and evil are real things.

There was a time when I felt so incredibly sad, that I just wanted to jump off my roof.

But our faith teaches us that God does not want us to take our life. That simple thought is one way my faith slowed me down.

But that was only the beginning.

We live in an age where psychology is a science.

In our culture and time many people see the value and the need to seek mental health. Research has been done that proves actions, such as meditation,

elicits the relaxation response,

decreases depression

and improves over all health.

Research also has found that writing feelings down in a journal can decrease anxiety and increase self-awareness.

But our faith was teaching these things long before scientists, therapists and college professors were.

Our Lady, years before psychologists conducted experiments proving the positive impact mediation has on the mind and body, suggested that we:

“pray the Rosary every day for peace”.

In a world that doesn’t stop, our Scripture says over and over again: “Be still”.

How to battle depression as a Catholic Christian

During my twenties, I started doing two things that were so good for my soul and my mood.

I started praying the Rosary out loud with friends and I started prayer journaling.

These two things (along with the help of an antidepressant) slowed me down and helped me as I wrestled with my broken heart.

Prayer Journaling

I’ve explored the topic of prayer journaling many times since I started this blog. One helpful article that you might find interesting was my conversation with Catholic Psychologist, Dr. Matt Breuninger

What does a Catholic Psychologist Say About the Benefits of Prayer Journaling?

In this conversation, Dr. B points out that:

Prayer journaling allows us to:

• create a space where we invite God in and ask Him for His safety and comfort
• courageously approach dangerous topics

One statement made by Matt Breuninger in this talk was one he made after this point. He said:

Journaling really gives us the space to approach very difficult and painful material. It can reduce our avoidance. It can reduce our anxiety, our stress and our overwhelm. When we journal we are approaching instead of avoiding.

Starting a prayer journal, to some, is a challenge. I urge you, just start.

This post was inspired by a talk I gave on the feast of Saint Teresa of Avila, who is credited with saying, “You pay God a compliment by asking great things of him.”

Copy that quote and ask for big things.

Thank the Lord for the last breath you took.

Today is the feast of Saint Pope John Paul II. If there is one quote I want my children to always know, especially when they are feeling sad, it’s this one:

“I plead with you — never, ever give up on hope; never doubt, never tire and never become discouraged. Be not afraid.”

Write it down. Ask God to restore your hope.

If you would like more help with starting a prayer journal, here is a post for you!

How to start a Prayer Journal in Three Easy Steps

Praying the Rosary will bring comfort to your hurting heart

I feel like the Rosary is like Neosporin. It’s a little something to put on a wound that is not an instant cure, but it helps.

Praying the Rosary out loud allows those physical benefits modern researchers have been able to discover and measure.

Praying out loud with at least one person is so incredibly soothing. Don’t be shy. Find a friend or a relative and ask them to pray with you.

As I write this I am preparing for the 2024 Prayer Wine Chocolate Retreat. One thing we do at every PWC Retreat is pray the Rosary as a group.

This retreat is for women – so if you fit that description, join us!! Find out more here!

The Rosary is a powerful prayer. Our Lady of the Rosary wants to pull us closer to her Son.

She’s literally throwing us a rope and pulling us up closer to heaven with each prayer.

Grab the rope. Keep praying.

One day, someone will need you to tell your whole story.

Trust me.

Until then, hang on and look ahead.

May God Bless You Abundantly,

Hugs and Prayers,

Amy

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Let’s do this again!!!

For where two or three are gathered together in My name, there am I in the midst of them.”
Matthew 18:20

You’re invited to attend the 2024 Prayer Wine Chocolate Retreat!

The Prayer Wine Chocolate Retreat is a great Retreat for Catholic Christian Women

Below is a photo from the first ever Prayer Wine Chocolate Retreat!!! The year was 2016!!!

The Retreat began at the Saint Katharine Drexel Shrine (before it moved into Philadelphia from Bensalem, PA).

We have had quite a few since then, and I am so excited to announce we are hosting another one on November 2, 2024!!!

Register today! Send $80 to @AmyGouldBrooks on Venmo! (This special offer is for Oct. 16th and 17th only! Register today and save $10!)

Where?

Pre-retreat

We have a space on hold for us at Bishop Estates Winery for Saturday evening.

However, to make the most of this retreat, we encourage everyone to go to Our Lady of the Sacred Heart Church for confession (3:15 pm to 3:45 pm) and Mass at 4:00 pm.

Register today! Send $80 to @AmyGouldBrooks on Venmo! (This special offer is for Oct. 16th and 17th only! Register today and save $10!)

Schedule of events for the Prayer Wine Chocolate Retreat:

Saturday, November 2, 2024

Start Time: 3:15 pm (Our Lady of the Sacred Heart Church 100 Broad Street, Hilltown, PA)

Confessions begin at 3:15; Mass at 4:00 pm

After Mass, please travel to Bishop Estate Vineyard and Winery (2730 Hilltown Pike, Perkasie)

*Transportation is not included, please plan accordingly*

End Time: 8:00 pm (winery is open until 9, we have the Lounge until 8:00)

Attending Our Lady of the Sacred Heart Church for Vigil Mass/Confession is optional.

Official retreat is being held at Bishop Estate Vineyard and Winery, come as early as 4:30 pm and meet us in the Lounge (down by the gift shop!)

Register today! Send $80 to @AmyGouldBrooks on Venmo!

Our Lady of the Sacred Heart Church

100 Broad Street

Hilltown, PA 18927

I have to share with you, I was feeling like I was not giving you all the full retreat experience when I booked the location at the winery.

I thought, Our Lady Of Czestochowa is about 10 minutes away from the vineyard; maybe they have a 4:00 pm vigil Mass. I looked it up and was disappointed to find they do not.

Then I thought, “maybe there is another church in the area that has a 4:00 pm vigil Mass.” I went to Google and started my search. I found Our Lady of the Sacred Heart and found they have a 4:00 Mass on Saturdays. Then I googled the directions from the church to the winery and like a wink and a smile from Jesus Our Lord – it was revealed to me. This Church is . . . drumroll please

3 MINUTES from the winery! THREE MINUTES!

GOD IS SO GOOD!

Our Lady of the Sacred Heart Church is less than a 4 minute drive from Bishop Estates Winery!!!

After the 4:00 Mass come on over to Bishop Estates Winery. We will be in the Lounge!

So, if you want the full Prayer Wine Chocolate Retreat experience; head to Our Lady of the Sacred Heart at 3:15 pm, go to confession and attend the Saturday Vigil Mass at 4:00 pm, then head to Bishop Estate Vineyard and Winery.

Please note, transportation will not be provided. Please plan accordingly.

Retreat:

Bishop Estate Vineyard and Winery 4:45 to 8:00 pm

Bishop Estate Vineyard and Winery

2730 Hilltown Pike

Perkasie, PA 18944

Catered dinner from Steam Pub and wine from Bishop Estate will be provided.

We will pray the Rosary, eat dinner, enjoy each others company, friendship and have some wine.

We will share the future of the Prayer Wine Chocolate ministry!

As always, we have a very laid back purchase your ticket and hold your spot system.

Simply send your ticket purchase or purchase money to my Venmo or PayPal account (see above).

Tickets this year will cost $75.00 (on or before October 15)

Ticket price includes snacks, dinner, bottled water and two glasses of wine.

Our Lady of the Sacred Heart (full address)

100 Broad St, Hilltown Township, PA 18927

*Transportation is not included, please plan accordingly*

Bishop Estate Vineyard and Winery (full address

2730 Hilltown Pike, Perkasie, PA 18944

How do I register for the Prayer Wine Chocolate Retreat?

Space is limited! Register today before the event sells out!!!

Register today! Send $80 to @AmyGouldBrooks on Venmo! (This special offer is for Oct. 16th and 17th only! Register today and save $10!)

1.  Go to Paypal.com and click “send money” OR contact me about paying via Venmo (email me your Venmo name and the amound of tickets you would like; I send you a request for the payment. Email me at prayerwinechocolate@gmail.com )
2. Send $75.00 to prayerwinechocolate@gmail.com via PayPal or follow directions above for Venmo (if before October 15, 2024 $75.00- if after that date the registration fee is $90.00)
3. Email me (Amy) at prayerwinechocolate@gmail.com with the subject Registered!  Tell me you registered and I will respond letting you know if the payment went through and that you are on the list!  (This event will sell out – don’t wait, register today)!!!
4. Look for a response from me!  I’ll be giving you more info about dinner and other details!  I’m so excited!

Why attend the Prayer Wine Chocolate Retreat?

A couple past retreat participants shared their thoughts last week.

Whitney, says this:

“A few years ago, I decided to go on a solo retreat from North Carolina up to Pennsylvania for the prayer wine chocolate retreat. It was so refreshing having my own spiritual time of renewal. Amy helped me find a retreat center close by and I met up with the group. I really enjoyed making new friends, going to confession, visiting different shrines and having a meal and wine together at the end of the day. God placed so much on my heart that weekend and even in hindsight I can see how that time prepared me for the fruit that was to come in my spiritual life. The friends that I made at that retreat have continued to blossom over the last couple of years. We all shared with each other what God had placed on our heart.  It’s been so fruitful praying for these women and seeing God work in their lives over the past couple of years. We continue to stay in contact with each other and support each other in prayer.  The day was so organized and the retreat bag with religious items from small Catholic shops was one of my favorite keepsakes from that trip. I would hands down do it again!“

Katie, who has attended every Prayer Wine Chocolate Retreat since the very first, says this:

“The Prayer, Wine Chocolate Retreat has been a blessing in my life.  Spending the day building friendships and connections with like-minded Catholic women is something that we don’t always have. You can feel isolated and lonely in this world, but knowing you are not alone and have women who support you and pray with you is unmatched.”

Don’t hesitate to come alone! Feel free to invite a friend or two as well!

Support the Prayer Wine Chocolate ministry!!!

Each ticket purchase will help us continue to maintain and grow this ministry.

Our new mission statement is:

After one year of watching Betsy Scafidi run a successful and popular Prayer Wine Chocolate prayer group at her parish, we have decided to help other parishes offer this type of faith and fellowship community too.

With the help of Betsy Scafidi and Katie Davis, the Prayer Wine Chocolate community is growing – but we need your help too!

Purchase a ticket! Proceeds will help us create a new Prayer Wine Chocolate Meeting Guide as well as rebuild the website.

You can also purchase some Prayer Wine Chocolate gear to support the ministry!

Sweatshirts, T-shirts, wine tumblers, etc. are great gifts for you and a loved one.

Start shopping here today! Thank you for supporting this wonderful work I so enjoy!

I hope to see you November 2nd!!!

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Make Halloween Holy Again: 5 Tricks and Tips to Celebrate, Catechize and Evangelize!

We almost left the store with no costume for my 11-year-old son.

He wanted something that came across a little too bloody, too evil, and my mom instinct said, “No, pick something else.”

And he said he didn’t want anything else.

I had to hold my ground.

As we finally started towards the check out, we spotted a Stay Puffed Marshmallow Man costume that seemed to amuse the both of us.

Thankfully, we left with a costume we both agreed upon and no one was pouting.

Honestly, I never really liked Halloween that much.

Sure, free candy and lots of it – that was nice. But I always wanted to dress up as something pretty – I wasn’t into the creative costumes other thought of or the popular scary choices.

But as an adult, I really enjoy it.

I don’t have to dress up. I love seeing the creativity of the kids who knock on my door saying “trick or treat” very softly and often timidly.

And that change in my attitude came before I was a mom.

Now, my kids make it fun and unlike her mother, my daughter LOVES Halloween.

What I really enjoy most about this holiday is that it has become a tradition that my siblings bring their children to our house and all of us go trick or treating together. My parents come over and get to see all of their grandchildren in their costumes.

And I . . . I get the opportunity to share the real meaning of Halloween.

As I grow older … and our world and culture seems to be changing rather drastically . . . I see the demonic trend and evil swing that Halloween has taken in some circles.

That walk through the Halloween store last year made it hard to avoid seeing.

But great news, we don’t need to “cancel” Halloween. It’s an incredible opportunity to teach, share and celebrate our faith. Halloween invites us to celebrate the Saints and Pray for all souls. Here are some ways you can celebrate Halloween and not sacrifice your soul.

Whether you are going to several TRUNK OR TREATS; staying at home and giving out candy, hosting a Halloween party or just want to add some holy to your treats, here are some great ideas to get you enjoying the fun on Halloween this year!

Tip #1: Skip the Halloween Store when shopping for costumes

So, my first tip – don’t shop at those stores. If you are a mom, ask your kids what they want to be without taking them to see the mask of the guy that had an ax inserted in his head with all the fake blood you could imagine.

Shop on Amazon for the costume they thought of – and that you approve of (here’s my link, thanks for supporting this blog!)

Don’t want to shop from Amazon? You might not have to! There are second-hand stores that have Halloween costumes at a fraction of the cost – go check them out! Or, maybe you could make your own! I know many of you do this already – but in my house, that’s my husband’s department.

There are plenty of fun, harmless costumes that don’t invite thoughts of murder or the demonic. Let’s embrace those and ask God to help you stay firm as your kids get older (that was an answered prayer last year)!!!

Tip #2: Have fun with Catholic Home Decor!

Here is what I have loved embracing in recent years. Partly because it gives me the opportunity to decorate for All Saints’ Day knowing my family is coming over; partly because my seven year old daughter has voiced concerns over my lack of decorating for her favorite holiday.

One year I bought a Saint Table Cloth off Etsy. Last year I embraced the skull theme with Momento Mori stickers scattered throughout my home.

Check out this piece from Ginny & Sage Catholic Designs!

This year I have my eye on these art prints and a Pax Rosa candle!

I love that in our faith, there are actually 3 days together that make Hallowtide, so you can decorate with both All Saints Day and All Souls Day in mind.

Tip #3: Consider sharing some Holy Catholic Treats

Take advantage of the fact that skulls are both holy and cool.

There are a ton of Memento Mori stickers that are visually appealing and fun!

Here are a few Momento Mori stickers I have come across!

Pelican Catholic Gifts

Sweet Little Ones

Baritus Catholic

With a Joyful Heart

This is an incredible opportunity to evangelize!

Retro Catholic Art created the perfect holy cards you can add to treat bags – I’m thinking about giving these to my nieces and nephews this year!

These holy cards would be great additions to snack bags distributed at school Halloween parties and Trunk or Treats! You never know what good fruit may come from a little historical lesson!

Tip #4: Trade in Your “I’m here for the BOOS” shirt for a Catholic Sweatshirt or Tee

Okay, I admit it. I had a black shirt with a ghost holding a glass of red wine that said, “I’m here for the Boos” not so long ago. It was my go to Halloween shirt.

But this year, I am trying to decide on this sweatshirt from the Cozy Catholic wife or this tee from Nichole Lanthier Art. Which one do you like?

Not into skulls or want a sweatshirt you can wear all season long??? Oh I’ve got the perfect solution!

Prayer Wine Chocolate shirts are available as sweatshirts,

“hoodies”

Raglan 3 quarter sleeves

and

T-shirts!

Prayer Wine Chocolate shirts are awesome. You’ll make total strangers smile and you’ll support this blog and ministry!!!

Tip #5: Bring the Catholic Halloween Spirit Outside and Beyond the one day

One of my favorite things about Halloween is the outside fire pit, my beverage, and giving out candy to all the trick or treaters.

Where I live, it can get chilly on Halloween . . . so I love the creative genius of Worthy of Agape owner, who has Momento Mori blankets! Keep these blankets in mind when you want to get your Godson a religious gift, but still want to look cool while doing it

Do you like giving out candy while sipping on an adult beverage? If yes, I have a wine tumbler for that! One in purple and the other in pink! I am amazed at how often these tumblers come in handy! Grab yours today!!!

Got a teenage son or daughter? Whether or not they are going to a Halloween party or helping hand out candy at home; give them these little Catholic treats!

Memento Mori Retro Motel Key Chain
Key chains are great gifts for older kids – even if they don’t have their license yet!

Hosting a Halloween party for older kids? These key chains are the perfect party favor!

Momento Mori Rearview Mirror Charm from Sketch and Sentiment

Teens and young adults can celebrate the spiritual side of Halloween with Sketch & Sentiment’s Memento Mori Catholic Halloween Charm.

Encourage them to hang it from the rearview mirror to remind herself daily of the certainty of death, that life is fleeting, and should be lived in a way that will get you to Heaven! Bonus – the macrame knots are cleverly designed in a group of 10 so that our car charms can act as a decade rosary!

Does Halloween stress you out? Grab these essential oil earrings and be calm the whole day!

Bonus tip: Make it a priority to go Mass for All Saints Day!

Pray for ALL SOULS! Those who have passed on into eternal life and those who are still living with us!

Halloween does not have to be overtaken by those who are indifferent to the reality of spiritual warfare or to those who are fans of the occult. We can embrace this holiday with boundaries and intention.

We can show our children that being holy doesn’t mean being boring.

Let’s do this!

What would you add?

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Fatima and Francisco: Why so many Rosaries? One Mom’s Perspective

When Our Lady appeared to the children in Fatima, Francisco could not hear Our Blessed Mother but he could see her.
He asked Lucia to ask if Francisco would go to heaven too, she responded: “Yes, but first he must say many Rosaries.”

There has been writing and discussions around this statement, but I feel like I had an a-ha moment regarding this lately, and I feel compelled to share it with you.

I have no theology degree. There is much written about Francisco have a contemplative spirit, and this explains why Our Blessed Mother stressed his need to pray many Rosaries.

I feel like there is another lesson for all of us here. This is from my opinion and heart.

Why would a 8 year old have to say many rosaries to get to heaven?

Francisco was only 8 years old when he saw Our Lady. He was only 8 when she said that he would go to heaven BUT first he must say many rosaries.

That always perplexed me. I researched it and read about how “experts” said it was because he is a contemplative – but still, I remain puzzled.

Until this year.

I am a mother of 3 children. I have two sons and one daughter. One of my sons is quite emotional and extremely sensitive. He experiences anxiety and is stressed by much more than my other two children.

Just recently I wondered . . . could Francisco have been like my son?

This little boy of mine that is extremely emotional also has the most tender heart. He is emotionally intelligent, empathetic and does not want anyone to feel sad or upset.

He has no skills in emotional regulation. His anxiety is debilitating.

As a mother, obviously, I want to help him. I’m not eager to give him medicine. I do know there are things that we can do that will lower stress and calm our souls.

Mediation – saying the Rosary – is one of them.

Our Lady knew the science before we did the research

I have a Bachelor of Science in Psychology. For years I taught Intro to Psychology to Seniors in High School.

When we would get to the chapter on States of Consciousness, we would discuss meditation.

It wasn’t until the 1960’s that scientists started to research the effects of meditation.

Since that time, here are some things they have discovered:

Meditation elicits the relaxation response;

Meditation lowers stress and blood pressure;

Meditation reduces anxiety;

Meditation reduces depression; enhances self-awareness; increased attention span; and generates kindness.

When Our Lady was telling the Fatima children to pray the Rosary for peace, she didn’t just mean in wars that were being fought far away, she was also talking about peace within.

The Rosary is a form of meditation. She knew that this prayer would help all of humanity; but some of us struggle with anxiety more than others.

As I watch my son do things that definitely indicate Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and other high anxious stress, I want to help him. I have observed how praying the Rosary as a family relaxes him.

Perhaps, Francisco was like my little boy.

Research since the 1960’s has demonstrated that those who meditate report reduced symptoms of anxiety disorders such as social anxiety, paranoia, panic attacks, and obsessive-compulsive behaviors.

Read more here: 12 Science Based Benefits of Meditation

Our Lady appeared to the children of Fatima in 1917.

If Francisco’s parents were observing behaviors that I observe in my son, they weren’t talking about calling a counselor to help him.

In fact, Francisco’s father is on record saying this about Francisco:

“ He didn’t always have as much patience; and often, for small reason, he would run around like a young bull calf.“

Did you know that recent studies have demonstrated that meditation can enable people to tame their negative emotions?

In fact, researchers continue to discover more and more benefits of meditation today.

Our Lady knew the science. She knew if Francisco had trouble being still more than the average child. She knew if he had trouble regulating his emotions. She knew if he battled anxiety and excessive worrying.

She also knew that he would be facing death soon. Who wouldn’t be scared or anxious?

Having Francisco embrace the practice of praying the Rosary was a gift from a very loving Mother. She gave him a tool to help him cope with stress and fear. Isn’t this something we all want to give our children?

Let’s help our children battle anxiety with the Rosary

If you look up how to help children with anxiety, guess what’s on the list?

Meditation (here’s an article to read from ClevelandClinic)

There are many spiritual reasons to pray the Rosary. The graces and blessings that come from this prayer are abundant. But the generosity of God and the love of God and His Mother don’t stop there.

This prayer can truly calm our souls.

Friends, we live in a time when a book title The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness is a New York Times Bestseller.

Let’s pray the Rosary with our children.

Let’s teach them to pick up their Rosaries and pray it on their own.

Let’s give them this tool so they can calm their hearts, minds and souls.

The more they can do that, the better they can hear God’s voice.

Our Lady Seat of Wisdom; pray for us.

Helping ourselves and our children with anxiety

The Rosary is one incredible way our faith can help us cope with anxiety. Another way we can incorporate our faith into lowering stress is through journaling.

Learn more about journaling: What Does a Psychologist Say About the Benefits of Prayer Journaling?

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How Our Lady of the Rosary Helped Me Meet My Husband

Have you ever NOT noticed a rainbow until someone else pointed it out to you?

Have you ever had to pull a child away from danger –

maybe a car driving quickly in a parking lot, for example?

This is how I imagine one way Our Blessed Mother works in our lives. Our Heavenly Mother often has to point out what is already there – either a gift from God or danger that would lead us away from her Son.

Our Blessed Mother helps us see what God has ready for us

The way my husband Matt and I went on our first date is a much more specific example of how I believe Our Lady of the Rosary helps us.

In a way, he was the rainbow in the sky I needed pointed out to me.

Our Mama Mary, when we faithfully pray the Rosary and grant her a little trust (or a lot of it) points out to us the beauty that God has put in our lives. She also points out the danger that exists and is near us – especially those that would endanger our soul.

God heard my prayer for a husband long before I started praying the Rosary on a regular basis

Matt and I went on our first date in 2004.

However, the suggestion that I meet Matt came about two years before that.

Let me explain.

Around the year 2002, I bumped into an old high school friend. As we caught up, she expressed her opinion that I should “meet Matt”. Matt was her friend Maria’s brother. The only thing I gleaned that I had in common with this guy was that we were both single.

Based on that information, I made no effort to explore this idea and showed no interest in this idea.

Months later, I saw Karen again. This time Karen knew we were going to be together, so she brought a picture of Matt to show me.

Again, I expressed no interest really. I did not hear anything about this guy that made me think, “oh yes, we have lots in common, we should totally meet”.

Again, I did something like smiled, nodded and went along my way.

Something changed when I started praying the Rosary

In 2003, I started praying the Rosary with at least 3 friends once a week.

We would gather at my apartment on Thursday evenings. We often invited others to join us, and there were weeks where 5 to seven of us sat around a living room sharing intentions and praying the Rosary together.

Loneliness, Despair and Infertility inspired a Rosary group

There were 4 women that were there praying the Rosary consistently: Nancy, Siobhan, Kelly and myself.

When we began, Nancy and I were lonely and broken-hearted.

Siobhan was pregnant, but the father of the baby and her were on, to say the least, on a very rocky road.

Kelly was experiencing infertility.

These women became my closest friends. We did other things together besides meet up for Rosary once a week.

Nancy, Siobhan and Kelly were fans of a show called “Sex in the City”. I never watched it prior to meeting them and honestly, felt no desire to watch it. The title of the show didn’t exactly sit well with me.

HOWEVER, sometime in the beginning of 2004, Kelly decided she was going to have a “Sex in the City party”. My guess is the show was in it’s last season, so she wanted to gather friends to watch the last episode.

I agreed to go to this party because, well, I had no other plans and my friends were going to be there.

It was at this party that I met Maria.

Maria, Karen’s friend – who was also friends with Nancy and Kelly.

I quickly realized this was the Maria I had heard about many times and had yet to meet.

And this was the Maria who happened to have a single brother named Matt – who Karen had mentioned to me more than once.

I quickly realized why my mutual friends often spoke so highly of Maria. I immediately liked her and wanted to be her friend.

After we had talked a while, I said to Maria . . . “tell me about your brother our mutual friend Karen has told me about” . . .

Maria’s response:

“Oh I was hoping you’d ask!”

Maria left that party with a picture of me and my phone number. I figured, if his sister was that nice, he was probably a guy I’d like to meet.

I left the party not minding if this Matt eventually called me . . . but also with no high hopes or eager expectations.

Pictured above: Maria (Matt’s sister) is in the red shirt. Siobhan is next to her and Nancy is wearing the striped white and gray shirt.

At the end of May, Siobhan gave birth to a beautiful baby girl.

In early June, when Siobhan brought her daughter home to her new apartment, Nancy and I went to visit Mama and baby.

While we were visiting, my cell phone rang. I looked at the number calling and said something like,

“I don’t recognize that number. That might be Maria’s brother Matt. I’ll just let it ring and call him back . . “

I think I was going to say later but before I was done speaking, Nancy and Siobhan shouted in unison:

ANSWER IT!!!!!!!!!!!

As a reaction, I answered it.

Sure enough, it was Matt.

We talked a little and decided that we would go out together on the evening of June 17th. That was the last day of school so I thought it would be a good night to go out – I wouldn’t have to worry about grading or lesson planning at that point.

At a much later date, Matt shared with me how that day he called me, he had held his phone and my number in his hand for what felt like hours. It may have actually been hours.

Matt doesn’t like calling people. He even isn’t to fond of calling to order a pizza.

This phone call was a big deal for him to make.

I only recently shared with him what had happened on my end. I figured if I didn’t answer, he would leave a message and I would just call him back. In my mind – no big deal.

When I shared this story with him, Matt said that he really isn’t sure he would have left a message. In fact, he probably would not have left a message.

Matt once again reminded me how

he held his phone and my number and stared at it for a very, very long time.

I was reminded of how big a deal making this phone call was to him.

Then it dawned on me.

The two women who shouted ANSWER IT, were my prayer partners for the past 9 months.

It was those two who were listening to my intention week after week – please Lord let me meet a man I can fall in love with and marry.

It was with those two women who prayed the Rosary with me every week.

Not only was I walking with Our Lady, they also had been walking with her.

I feel like the three of them teamed up in that moment.

ANSWER IT was a direct message from God. That message was shared in stereo.

God had Matt chosen for me, but boy, did I need a whole lot of help to see that answered prayer and gift from above.

Our Blessed Mother Helped Me Open My Heart More to God’s Love

When my friend Karen suggested that I should meet Matt, I totally disregarded the suggestion.

Then, I started praying the Rosary with a group of friends.

That Rosary group led me to meet MARIA (ironic) and I let down my guard. I passed along my phone number.

But the help I needed didn’t end there. When Matt called me, I was not going to answer the phone.

I only answered it because two women, who had prayed the Rosary with me for months, were prompted to shout at the same time, “ANSWER IT”.

It’s actually that memory that made me stop and think about how every time I prayed the Rosary with these girls that year, my number one intention was all about my lonely, sad heart that longed for the vocation of marriage.

Maybe some of us need more help to see God’s gifts right in front of us. The fact that I might be one of those people does not surprise me at all.

I mean, it took me like 20 years to put all the pieces of this story together. Yeah, I might need Our Blessed Mother’s help . . . as well as some faithful friends.

And here we are, twenty years later.

Our first date was on June 17th 2004.

Our first child was born on June 17th years later.

God had it planned, I’m certainly grateful Our Heavenly Mother helped me see it.

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Veronica is one of my favorite names. When I was preparing for Confirmation, it was a name I had in mind, but that’s a story for another day.

When I was in college, my mother had a baby girl! She sat in the hospital holding this beautiful child the day they were supposed to come home and she did not yet have a name. My mother told my siblings and I that her and my dad were thinking of naming her Bernadette or Veronica (I also love and loved the name Bernadette – that was the other name I had hoped would be my Confirmation name a decade earlier!!).

I shouted Veronica!!!! And it seemed to be an overall consent.

Veronica is her name. I am not only her sister, but I am also her Godmother!

In a few weeks, my niece will be getting Confirmed. Her Saint she chose is – you guessed it – Saint Veronica.

So naturally, I’m on the search for Saint Veronica gifts. Here is what I have found and am loving!

But first, here are some facts about Saint Veronica:

Her feast Day July 12th and she is the patron saint of photographers.

Toys and baby friendly gifts for little Veronica’s Baptism or Birthday!

Saint Veronica Prayer Doll

Saint Veronica is the patron saint of photographers, images, laundry workers. Sketch & Sentiment’s plush prayer dolls feature St. Veronica on the front, with a prayer for her aid on the back.

Prayer dolls make lovely Easter basket and Christmas stocking stuffers, sacramental gifts, or just a reminder to pray. 

Saint Veronica Wooden Saint Peg

This peg doll is handmade by Sara Davila, owner of The Cheerful Gifter

It is a 3.5″ wooden peg doll hand painted and varnished using only non toxic materials in the image of St. Veronica.

Saint Veronica Wall Rosary

Hand-crafted by Allison owner of Small Things Great Love this VERONICA Wall Rosary is strung with soft peach, amethyst, soft pink, seafoam, soft white, and natural wood beads at the “Our Father.” It is finished with a beautifully handcrafted, stained crucifix and centerpiece.

Saint Veronica Confirmation Gifts

Saint Veronica Photographer Necklace

Made by Sagely Sparrow, the necklace is available in lengths of 18in and 24in and comes with a St. Veronica medal, a silver colored camera charm, and a clear faceted glass bead.

It is so pretty, so fun and so affordable!!! It is also available on Etsy!

Silver Bangle Bracelet with Saint Veronica Charm

Catholic Faith Store has a variety of Saint Veronica gifts, but currently, this one is my favorite!

St. Veronica charm in an oval shape and border text that reads Saint Veronica Pray For Us. Paired with a cable bangle bracelet. The bracelet is designed with a double tier cable twist wire with oval eye hook closure and can be silver or gold in color.

To see the other Saint Veronica gifts in this shop, check out this link to Catholic Faith Store!

If you are shopping for a Confirmation gift, don’t forget to include The Be Yourself Journal!!!

Saint Veronica Gifts for all ages and occasions!

Veronica’s Veil Vintage Catholic Rosary

This Holy Face of Jesus rosary celebrates the image of Christ on Saint Veronica’s Veil with stunning medals and beautiful dark grey larkivite with black flecking, combined with dark red garnet pater beads. This is designed to be loved by either a man or woman. This rosary is sturdy has a nice heavy weight in the hand and is 17 inches long. 

I love this sketch by Kate Capato (Visual Grace) titled Face of Christ.

Artwork by Kate Capato, Visual Grace

Originally done on unprimed canvas as a reflection of the cloth used to wipe the face of Christ on the way to Calvary. Notice His look as He loves you dearly, beckoning you in to His heart. 

This cloth of Saint Veronica sticker is one of my favorites.

Original artwork of Baritus Catholic, this 3″ vinyl waterproof sticker of the the Holy Face of Jesus on the veil of Veronica – Vera Icon.

Saint Veronica Art Prints

This style of art seems to be popular and modern

Saint Veronica Print by Light Bearer Designs

Saint Veronica Prayer Card by Creator Blessed

A totally different style, but this digital download of Saint Veronica struck me and I had to share it with you!

Looking for other Saint Gifts? I have done several other posts similar to this one!

Gifts inspired by Saint Francis

Our Lady of Guadalupe Gift Guide

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Would you like to read more about Saint Veronica? Check out this article from Catholic Women in Business: Let us Not Grow Tired: A Lesson in Veronica’s Bold Compassion

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5 Catholic White Elephant Gift Ideas You Will Love

Catholic White Elephant Gift Ideas

I saw Amazon sent an email with “White Elephant” gift ideas and it made me think . . .

we could totally upscale this with gifts that spark faith and beautiful thoughts about God!

We can do so much better!

Forget Amazon’s suggestions, these Catholic gifts are so much better!

White elephant gift idea #1 – unique band-aids

One item Amazon had on it’s White Elephant Gift List was “bacon bandages”

– forget the bacon bandaids, give Jesus and Mary Bandages from Be a Heart!!! Use coupon code PRAYERWINECHOCOLATE for 10% off!

Ironically, these Jesus Bandages, are also available on Amazon!

White elephant gift idea #2 – novelty socks

Another popular item listed are socks. Amazon suggest animal paw socks??? Forget those and . . .

DEFINITELY consider Sock Religious for your White Elephant gift! So many to choose from – guaranteed to give a smile and some intercessory prayer!

White Elephant gift idea #3 – funny mugs and other drinkware

Amazon’s suggestion – heat changing Gameboy mug.

Catholic alternative: Saint Michael pixel mug

Other drinkware options:

Stainless Steel Tumbler

not so Holy Water Tumbler from Sagely Sparrow – so funny!

Have a little fun while sharing your faith with this (not so) Holy Water tumbler. It makes a great funny gift for the fun-loving Catholic in your life. Fill it with iced tea, hot chocolate, your favorite adult beverage, or plain old (not holy) water.

Enjoy hot or cold drinks on the go with this stylish stainless steel tumbler! This reusable tumbler with a metal straw is a perfect combo for hot or cold drinks at any time of the day.

A Prayer Wine Chocolate Wine Tumbler!

You can get a pink or purple Prayer Wine Chocolate Wine Tumbler!

White Elephant Gift Idea #4 – Playing Cards

Amazon had quite a few differing playing card decks on their white elephant suggestion list.

Instead of Harry Potter or World’s Smallest DOS, give Catholic Family Crate playing cards! You can purchase these from Etsy or directly from Catholic Family Crate’s website.

Catholic Family Crate has quite a few card games that our popular in our home!

In fact, many White Elephant gift suggestions were games.

If you want to give a game that a little more unique, check out The Catholic Card Game by Board Catholic

The Catholic Card Game by Board Catholic

THE GAME FOR CATHOLIC ADULTS While other party games make you feel like you need Confession after playing and other Catholic products are either too childish or too academic, the Catholic Card Game provides clean entertainment without sacrificing quality or fun.It’s easy to play, relatable, and hilarious.

White Elephant Gift Idea #5 – a candle

Pax Rosa, a new Catholic Candle Company, has a variety of styles and scents!

You can choose one decorated with some art like the Holy Family hearts candle or

one with script, like the Wedding at Cana candle.

If you want MORE Catholic Gift Ideas, be sure to check out my latest posts:

The BEST Catholic Gifts to Give This Christmas

and

Dynamic Duos: These Catholic Gifts Go Great Together

Did you love the Sears or JC Penny catalog around Christmas when you were a kid? We created a Catholic Christmas Catalog to bring back those feelings of nostalgia while also inspiring you to give and ask for Catholic gifts this year!

Check it out: A Cozy Catholic Christmas Catalog

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