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Dec 20, 2016
Faith· Uncategorized

How God Provides

This time of year we tend to look at our financial situation and attempt to balance between what we should buy and what we would really love to purchase.

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We live in a culture that is so abundant in material possessions  that it’s not unusual to hear a radio advertisement asking the listener, “what do you get for the person who has everything?”. This is a phrase that convinces a customer to buy and helps a business survive – and possibly thrive.

But the reality is, many of us are using credit to do our shopping and our bills do not leave us with much for savings.

Personally, I LOVE Christmas shopping.  I love buying people Christmas gifts.  Somehow, even as a poor college student, I always managed to buy presents for family and close friends.  It is something that has brought me joy as long as I can remember.

This year, the budget is super tight.  This week in particular reminded me of that.  My husband’s car was inspected and needed almost $1,000 of work (and that was just to pass inspection); our oven broke and our heat up stairs stopped working.  What a week – for any time of year.  But it’s Christmas time, so it’s an extra reminder to me that our finances are limited.

However, that doesn’t change how much I really like to Christmas shop.  One thing I look forward to each year is purchasing a gift for our parish giving tree so that a needy child will have one more thing to open Christmas morning.  I reached out to the woman who runs the toy drive and asked “what age group needs gifts?”

I knew the answer before she responded.  Those tween years are tough.  Sure enough, I was informed – both boys and girls ages 10-13.

I have a special place in my heart for the average 13 year old girl.  I remember vividly how challenging that time was – and I often choose that age when I shop for a gift to donate.

But . . . how can I justify buying another thing?

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Then a phrase that has been a voice inside my mind once before returned:

God will provide.

And He did.  I found coupon for Staples (an office supply/stationary store) for $10.00 off a purchase of $10.00 or more.  So basically . . . $10.00 appeared.

$10.00 is not going to get the most amazing gift . .. but it enabled me to get some colored pens and two adorable notebooks.  Hopefully that humble gift will bring a young girl a smile and some joy.

Although ten dollars is a small gift from above, I have seen God provide in much bigger ways.

The fact that I went to college, lived there and graduated in four years is a huge testament to the value financial aid, hard work at humbling part-time jobs and divine intervention.

But that phrase:
“God will provide” was particularly loud and persistent about four years ago . . . when, after years of praying, my husband and I finally became parents.

As a teacher in the Archdiocese of Philadelphia’s Secondary Schools, I knew that once we became parents, I would stay home for a year.  That was a benefit I saw many other teachers I worked with enjoy, I had planned to do the same.

That year went by so quickly . . . and my husband really felt that I needed to go back to work so that we could stay afloat financially.

But, all I kept hearing inside my own head was . . . “God will provide”.

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Our son was born with some health challenges, and my life as a teacher had me working on lesson plans and grading almost every waking hour that I wasn’t instructing students in the classroom.  I had tried to change that “system” many times; but then I would be teaching content I wasn’t familiar with or something else would be thrown in the mix.

I couldn’t be both a good mom and a good teacher.  I knew this in my heart.

I assured my husband, “God will provide”.

And He did.  From secondary insurance, to part-time work as an SAT reader, to more babysitting jobs I had in high school, God provided.  And He didn’t stop there.  My husband has earned two promotions since we have become parents.

We certainly do not live extravagantly, and there is a list of things that need attention, but we are okay.  Our heat is on, and we are not hungry.

God provides us with what we need.  He loves us.  Sometimes I need the reminder that what those who I love most don’t need an extra gift, but extra love, extra listening, extra attention, extra prayers and extra forgiveness.

If you are worried about balancing your checkbook, remember, God will provide.

Sometimes, He just wants to remind us to close our checkbooks and open our hearts.

May the Lord give you a very, very, Merry Christmas!

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  1. Kerry says

    December 20, 2016 at 10:46 am

    Thanks for sharing, Amy! God really does provide for us in tangible ways.

  2. Brittany says

    December 20, 2016 at 9:33 pm

    I love this and I think you sharing your heart and faith so freely and openly is a treasured gift. Never underestimate the power of your prayers and your words – you are providing something so much more than money and material things. Love this and I pray you have a very blessed Christmas my sweet blog friend!

    • Amy says

      December 21, 2016 at 7:16 am

      Thank you so much Brittany! I really needed to hear that!

  3. Trina says

    December 21, 2016 at 6:28 am

    Love this and it’s something we all need to remember everyday, especially during the holidays. We can get so caught up with gift giving that we tend to lose the meaning of what Christmas is all about. Thank you for reminding me!

    • Amy says

      December 21, 2016 at 7:17 am

      Thank you Trina!

  4. Alicia Potvin says

    December 21, 2016 at 7:53 am

    Through my whole life I have been told time and time again, I would never be rich but I would always have enough but sometimes it is hard to remember that when times are really tight and one needs to just trust especially when there are expenses that you just cannot avoid such as you had. Merry Christmas and a wonderfully fun and full New Year.

    • Amy says

      December 21, 2016 at 9:41 am

      Merry Christmas Alicia! I truly appreciate every comment you write! I hope you have an awesome holiday – and a great, wonderful new year!!! xoxoxo

  5. A Beautiful Camouflaged Mess says

    December 21, 2016 at 8:57 am

    Great reminder that God will provide. That, too, is kind of my mantra when things get tight – and, I find myself having to remind both my husband and myself. I have two mantras that are pretty standard – “to whom much is given, much is expected,” and, “God will provide.” Thanks for the reminder as we enter into the holiday season!

  6. Sara says

    December 21, 2016 at 12:52 pm

    Love it! My husband is going to grad school for his PhD in math. Through it all I’ve been able to be a stay at home mom, we now have three kids. God truly does provide! He’s got another year and a half till he graduates, and we’re praying for a job for him close to home and quick! Our trust is in God.

  7. Shannon says

    December 21, 2016 at 1:13 pm

    Oh how I needed to read this today– my son has health challenges as well and I left my teaching job this year because, like you, I couldn’t do that job and my job as a mother well at the same time. At the time, we had enough savings to last us until the end of the year and we figured something would break with my husband’s work by then– but here we are at the end of the year, and while no new job or promotion has worked out yet, and while financially I feel as though I should consider going back to work– my heart tells me that my son needs me at home still, so thank you for this reminder that God will provide even when I don’t see a way yet.

    • Amy says

      December 21, 2016 at 10:23 pm

      Follow your heart Shannon! Our son is 4 and THRIVING! There is nothing compared to the love of a stay-at-home parent!!! Best of luck and prayers for your family!!

  8. Tami says

    December 22, 2016 at 11:22 am

    That really hit home for me this morning! Thank you for sharing and I will believe with you that God does always provide!

  9. Bonnie says

    December 27, 2016 at 1:02 am

    I’m finding how God provides in my life lately as well. I know He always does and I reflect on that as well. Lately, I feel that He has been providing ways for me to get the word out about my blog at just the right time. It’s been such a blessing!

    • Amy says

      December 27, 2016 at 11:08 am

      Amen to that! What is your blog name – please share!

  10. Jessica Kong says

    December 30, 2016 at 8:35 pm

    What a lovely and honest post! I completely understand financial troubles! I actually just started working again a few months ago and the transition has been rough but you are so right… God ALWAYS provides! I have the Saint Clare Glory Story CD and I remember crying when Saint Clare repeats those words because I look back at where we were just a few years ago and where we are now and it’s just extraordinary! I will keep you and your family in my prayers!

    • Amy says

      December 31, 2016 at 4:28 pm

      Thank you so much Jessica!!

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