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Oct 30, 2017
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“Be Yourself” Prayer Journal Parties for Girls: Themes, Prompts and Mini Lesson Plans

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The Be Yourself Journal can easily be used in a group setting. Some parishes are using it in small groups already!!

Other moms are considering using it for a birthday party/ sleepover theme.

Both are GREAT ideas and I encourage you to consider how you can share this journal in a fun way to a special young woman in your life!

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The Be Yourself Journal was written to meet young girls where they are; and no matter where they are on their spiritual journey, girls, like all people, are not meant to be islands. Girls are social by nature. Knowing that, I wrote the book with many pages that could be shared with friends. There are pages that the user will want to do alone and keep personal. But there is a great balance in this book of personal and social, light and serious, prayer and inspiration.

While I am working with Gracewatch Media to create a leader’s guide for the journal, I wanted to give you a sneak peak on what to expect. Here are some ideas on how to use the journal in a group setting.

Theme 1: Creation- Meant for Fun

Materials:

Be Yourself: A Catholic Journal for Girls

Gel pens

Colored Pencils 

Highlighters

Procedure:

  1. Give the books to the girls and encourage them to check it out! Tell them to fill out the page titled “Your Beauty Basics” (If the “Let your light shine coloring page: page 1, then your beauty basics is page 4) and reassure them that it’s okay to doodle and color 🙂
  2. Once this is completed, allow them to share with one another. Then turn their attention back to page 2 which quotes the Catechism.  Ask for a volunteer to read each quote.  Then, draw the girls’ attention to the beginning of the last quote, “GOD CREATED EVERYTHING FOR YOU . . .).  That will be the focus of today’s session.
  3. Turn the girls attention (and books) to the God’s Creation page.  Have someone read the top out loud.  Allow the girls time to read the aspects of Our Lord’s creation that are listed.  Encourage them to highlight, circle or draw hearts around all the ones they truly appreciate. Then ask them for suggestions on what else could be added to the list.  Finally, allow them time to choose and write their “top three”.
  4. Next, have the girls fill out the next two pages.  Give plenty of time, but ask them for this part that they stay focused on the pages titled “God’s Creation & You” and “Would you Rather”.  Allow them to talk and share if they wish – but not required.  Let them know that they will be asked to share and discuss the Would you rather page, but not the personal favorites page.
  5. Have everyone pick a random partner and share their “would you rather” answers. Direct them to draw a heart next to the responses that match.  Switch partners several times and repeat!

Wrap it up!

Ask the group if they ever thought about or realized that God created so many things for them to enjoy. Point out that our uniqueness can be seen in that we all don’t enjoy creation the same way.  Encourage the young women to take time each day to thank God for at least one aspect of His creation.

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Have more time?

If at the end of any session, you find yourself with more time, allow the girls to color one of the 20 coloring pages!  Let them choose which one!


 

 

Theme 2: Bloom Where You are Planted

Materials:

The Be Yourself Journal

Glue sticks

Photographs of the girls with one or more people (tell them to bring at least 10 pictures!)

Holy Cards

Scrapbooking Supplies

Created to Create Starter Kit from DaySpring (optional, but these are perfect prompts for prayer journaling!)

Clear contact paper

Magazines

stickers

Procedure:

  1.  Redirect girls to the quotes from the Catechism on page 2 of the journal:

GOD ESTABLISHED YOU IN HIS FRIENDSHIP.

based on Catechism of the Catholic Church #355

GOD CREATED YOU BOTH BODY AND SOUL.

based on Catechism of the Catholic Church #382

GOD CREATED EVERYTHING FOR YOU. BUT YOU IN TURN WERE CREATED TO SERVE AND LOVE GOD AND TO OFFER ALL CREATION BACK TO HIM.

based on Catechism of the Catholic Church #358

2. Tell the girls we’re going to look at YOU today.  Reassure each young lady that God created her on purpose and for a specific mission.

3. Direct them to the first Saint Spotlight.  Take a look at the “snapshot”.  Make sure they each know what a “pet peeve” is and give an example of one.  After they read the “snapshot” of St. Catherine of Siena, ask them if it were a snapshot of each of them, what would it say – ask for volunteers to give answers of nicknames, advice to others, pet peeves, etc.

4.  Read the letter from Saint Catherine.  First out loud, then have each girl read it silently.  Tell them to highlight or underline something they want to remember.  Once the letter was read twice, really talk about all the labels and pressures we put on ourselves and that our culture stresses.  Remind them that only one label is important . . . being the eternal daughter of God the Father.  Reassure the girls that yes, we should give the Lord our time and talents, but when those things become burdens or stressors, we need to trust God with them and only concern ourselves with our love for Him.

5. One way to serve and love God is to love and help others.  Mother Teresa had great advice:

Never worry about numbers. Help one person at a time and always start with the person nearest you”

Saint Teresa of Calcutta

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Take the girls to this page of the journal.  Have them take out their pictures they brought and glue pictures of them with one other person.  Remind them that they have done God’s will in their lives when they have loved others.  Allow girls to embellish the page with stickers, washi tape  and any other way their creativity prompts them.

6. Next, direct them towards the back cover.  The directions for the back cover are inside the book on one of the very last pages.  Give them time to pick out a holy card, a picture of themselves, inspirational words and pretty stickers.  Give them a piece of scrapbooking paper to use as a canvas.  Encourages them to color “Let your light shine” with gel pens.  Once they have completed the back cover, help them protect it with clear contact paper.

7.  If there is more time, allow them to explore the book on their own and pick something to read or questions to work on.  Advise them to write questions they have down on the page after the Saint Catherine of Siena letter.

These are just two samples of what to expect in a soon to be published “Leader’s Guide”.

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  1. Emily says

    October 30, 2017 at 6:23 pm

    Such fabulous ideas! Thank you. I especially love the idea of giving them as party gifts. Especially when you consider how much people spend on birthday parties. Maybe even ask parents to pitch in money in lieu of buying gifts for the birthday girl. I bought one for my 11 yr old daughter for St Nicholas Day & I can’t wait to give it to her.

  2. Desiree says

    October 30, 2017 at 7:36 pm

    So excited about this for a Christmas gift for my daughter!

  3. Jenn T says

    October 30, 2017 at 11:54 pm

    I’ve been looking for something like this for my daughters! Going to share with my nieces, too!

    • Amy says

      October 31, 2017 at 9:03 am

      Awesome, so glad you found it here!!!

  4. Jeanie Egolf says

    October 31, 2017 at 7:27 am

    Bought 2 signed editions and tucked them away for Christmas gifts, but this party idea sounds so cool, they may have to be early presents!!

    • Amy says

      November 1, 2017 at 6:16 pm

      🙂 . You just gave me a huge smile Jeanie!!!

  5. Angela Snyder says

    October 31, 2017 at 9:26 pm

    Boy, I bought one for my god daughter but was wishing for one for our daughter and niece, too!

    • Amy says

      November 1, 2017 at 6:16 pm

      Best of luck!

  6. Lindsay says

    November 1, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    I wish I had something like this when I was growing up! Great Christmas gift idea!

    • Amy says

      November 1, 2017 at 6:17 pm

      Thanks Lindsay! The kid in me still wants one – some day I just might fill one out myself!

  7. Sara @ To Jesus Sincerely says

    November 1, 2017 at 7:33 pm

    These ideas look like so much fun! What a great supplement to CCD instruction 🙂

    • Amy says

      November 2, 2017 at 7:54 am

      Thank you Sara! I hope many PREP/CCD programs embrace the idea!

  8. Robbie at Use Resources Wisely says

    November 2, 2017 at 1:11 pm

    How much is the prayer journal? Would love it for my Girl Scout troop!!

    • Amy says

      November 3, 2017 at 3:36 pm

      It’s $20.00 from my website – but also available on Amazon Prime for a few cents less! If you are looking to order more than10- you can contact Gracewatch Media for a discounted rate!

    • Amy says

      November 3, 2017 at 3:37 pm

      Thank you for asking – sounds like a really fun idea!

  9. Cecilia says

    November 3, 2017 at 3:44 pm

    These are just lovely ideas!! Perfect for the girl’s club! Thank you.

  10. Adrienne Thorne says

    November 3, 2017 at 5:06 pm

    What a great idea! Definitely recommending this to friends with girls that age!

    • Amy says

      November 3, 2017 at 8:21 pm

      Thank you Adrienne!

  11. Kathy Dobrowolski says

    November 13, 2017 at 9:31 am

    What a great idea! Would love to have this in our parish library (I’m the librarian) to promote!

    • Amy says

      November 16, 2017 at 2:18 pm

      Kathy send me an email – I’ll see what I can do to make that happen!

  12. Rosie McCune says

    November 15, 2017 at 3:03 pm

    My daughters will be receiving these journals as a St. Nicholas Day surprise. I cannot wait to have the possibility of a leadership guide to help create and facilitate a small group event with this journal at our parish!

    • Amy says

      November 15, 2017 at 4:37 pm

      Awesome! Thank you for giving your girls this journal!!! <3

  13. Angie says

    November 15, 2017 at 3:27 pm

    This looks like an excellent book for a group of young girls.

  14. Constance Hull says

    November 16, 2017 at 8:12 am

    My daughter is only 6, but I’d love to get journals for my closest friend’s teenage daughters!

  15. Kristi Jenkins says

    November 16, 2017 at 8:14 am

    Would love to see this run at church, in addition to the youth group gatherings. Also am considering it for my goddaughter – would be fun to do it with her long distance.

    There’s so many little parish gift shops- would be great to have there too!

    • Amy says

      November 17, 2017 at 10:35 pm

      Thank you Kristi! I’m so glad the Lord allowed me to be the pencil in this needed mission!!

    • Amy says

      November 22, 2017 at 5:56 am

      Thank you Kristi! We are hoping to get it into more parishes and schools!

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