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Nov 9, 2017
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Saint Catherine of Siena: Inspiring an Adoption Movement that is Brave, Compassionate and Supportive

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When my husband and I met with a young woman considering adoption last summer, we asked her if she had thought about a name for her unborn daughter.

She said, “Siena”.

I had never considered that name for a child, but boy – was I impressed.  What a beautiful name and an awesome patron saint a child with that name would have.

That young woman decided to parent, and ended up naming her daughter Chloe.  But that name stuck with me, so on September 2nd, 2016, when our family began another spiritual adoption journey, we chose the name Siena Kathleen for our “spiritual daughter”.  A short time later, we decided to add a brother: George Patrick.

7 months later we brought home twins . . . a boy and a girl.  Our five year old son said, “their names are Siena Kathleen and George Patrick”!

Well, their names are actually Jaina Kathleen and George Kieran – but George was definitely a name that I had never considered before all of this happened!

Little did I know, that it was around this time that an Adoption Service was being formed, and being named after the brave and faithful, Saint Catherine of Siena.

Mary Kate Sparrow and Annie Surine and are the founders of Siena Adoption Services

 

Siena Adoption Services Founders

Siena Adoption Services was founded as a ministry. Founders Mary Kate Sparrow and Annie felt strongly that, for many,

the adoption process has become too expensive, too impersonal and too complicated.

Adoption is such an expensive process.

That thought had crossed my mind many times as well.  That truth led my husband and I to pursue our second and third adoptions without signing on with an adoption agency.  That fact led to the creation of The Rose Garden (an adoption support group sponsored by A Baby’s Breath Crisis Pregnancy Centers).

Adoption is beautiful and is a calling – for both some expectant mothers and hopeful families.  When an expectant mother or couple are considering an adoption plan for their child, most know that a good, safe, loving family does not necessarily mean a wealthy family.  However, the cost of the adoption process almost make it impossible for average couples to pursue parenthood through adoption.

Sparrow found that by volunteering time, Siena adoptions are able to cut down expenses significantly.  She continued, saying:

 

We also feel that, being rooted in faith, we will be able to approach both the adoptive families and birth parents with a greater sense of compassion and support. Through the Church we are all family in the broader sense and by acknowledging our role as a member of the Church family we can make the connections needed to ensure these children have loving homes. After all, we are all adopted sons and daughters ourselves in this family. Ephesians 1:5 says “he destined us for adoption to himself through Jesus Christ, in accord with the favor of his will.”

 

Our ministry is named after St. Catherine of Siena.

She was brave during a dark time.

Her acts of courage and faith are able to inspire us all these years later. They prompt us to put our faith into action.

I first read about Siena Adoptions on the Catholic Herald website.  Shortly after that (and I mean – minutes) a mutual friend of Mary Kate and I – Mary Beth (Camila’s Candles)sent me a message. She said:

I know it has been so long since we talked, but was thinking… next month is Adoption awareness month and wasn’t sure what you had in mind in terms of your blog. A friend of mine started an adoption agency/ministry here in Washington and I just think their mission is so amazing . . .

I totally agree with Mary Beth, their mission is amazing!

Siena Adoption Services exists to make adoption easy and affordable. Siena Adoption Services provide adoptions at a greatly reduced rate.  The mission of Siena Adoptions is to make adoption possible for anyone who feels called.

I never thought Saint Catherine of Siena would be an intercessor for expectant parents considering adoption – or hopeful adoptive families.

But as I research her life, I find (with much help from Catholic.org):

St. Catherine of Siena was a single woman – living in the 1300’s – who made such an impression on people she gained followers and was instrumental in restoring the Papacy to Rome and in brokering peace deals during a time of factional conflict and war between the Italian city states.

Although some married women do choose to make an adoption plan for their unborn babies, many are single women.  Their acts provide a living example that one can choose life over termination – even in time when there is much political conflict.

St. Catherine developed a habit of giving things away and she continually gave away her family’s food and clothing to people in need. She never asked permission to give these things away, and she quietly put up with their criticisms.

How often is a woman who makes an adoption plan criticized in our culture? The woman’s choice to give her baby to an adoptive couple is anything but easy, and most often family does not approve.  It is quite a challenge to put up with the critics, and St. Catherine provides an example of doing just that.

St. Catherine was drawn further into the world as she worked, and eventually she began to travel, calling for reform of the Church and for people to confess and to love God totally.

Despite the fact that she was a woman long before “women’s rights” despite the fact that she had critics, she travels and changed people’s hearts away from worldliness and towards loving God whole heartedly.  Her bravery is an inspiration.

Siena Adoptions needs you to help them!

 

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Make a donation to Siena Adoptions!  You can do this directly on their website (Siena Adoption Services)

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  1. Alicia @ Sweeping Up Joy says

    November 9, 2017 at 5:21 pm

    I’ve enjoyed following your adoption journey, Amy! Thank you for sharing this ministry.

    I love getting updates from Reece’s Rainbow about children who find their forever families.

    • Amy says

      November 10, 2017 at 9:46 am

      Thank you so much Alicia!! That reminds me to go like Reece’s Rainbow on Facebook and share some posts!

  2. Beth says

    November 13, 2017 at 8:12 am

    We are in the midst of our own adoption process, matched to adopt a baby boy due on January 13. I do not know where this will end, but I can certainly vouch for the power of prayer. I love the posts on how to bless your birthmom too, as well as the thoughts about birthmoms interwoven into this post as well, as we figure out how best to reach out to her and her family.

    • Amy says

      November 13, 2017 at 1:19 pm

      Congratulations Beth! Such an exciting – and emotional time! Thank you for reading my posts! Amen for the power of prayer – the best advice I’ve heard is, don’t stop praying!

  3. Kasy Long says

    November 13, 2017 at 1:39 pm

    This was an amazing post to read! As someone who will most likely adopt in the future, I loved reading your journey. Thank you!

  4. Angie says

    November 13, 2017 at 1:56 pm

    I am adopted myself and I am thinking of adoption but its a long and expensive process so I have to think it through. But I would love to be able to give a child the same loving and safe childhood as I have had! Thanks for sharing your story!

  5. Lindsey says

    November 13, 2017 at 2:27 pm

    Beautiful! It brings me so much joy to hear of ministries working to improve the current process for adoptions.

  6. Emily says

    November 13, 2017 at 7:03 pm

    Amy….you’re not going to believe this. So I’ve only been married a few months, don’t have confirmation yet, but am believing that I will probably be unable to have children of my own. I’ve been struggling this week especially with that fear, and while we are not quite ready yet, plan on adopting down the road if it’s God’s will. Anyway….I was reading your article as I was listening to grad school lectures in the background (not what I should be doing probably, but that’s besides the point). I’m reading St. Catherine of Siena in your post, and then all of a sudden, I hear “St. Catherine of Siena” in my headphones. Turns out we are starting a section on St. Catherine of Siena in class, at the exact same moment as I started reading this article. Talk about God-incidence! Definitely saving this for the future.

    • Amy says

      November 15, 2017 at 8:55 am

      I got the chills reading this! Isn’t amazing how the Lord works! So happy you left this comment – thank you!

  7. Amy says

    November 15, 2017 at 11:22 pm

    Great post!

  8. Jeanine @MommyEntourage says

    November 20, 2017 at 3:16 pm

    Amy, I’ve so enjoyed following your adoption story! It is heartwarming and you have such a warm, beautiful family!

    • Amy says

      November 22, 2017 at 5:55 am

      Thank you Jeanine!

  9. Katie says

    November 21, 2017 at 10:06 am

    What an amazing story, and an amazing movement!

    • Amy says

      November 22, 2017 at 5:56 am

      Amen!

  10. Leslie says

    November 24, 2017 at 2:49 pm

    Love this story! I don’t have an adoption story of my own, but adoption has blessed my extended family/ Entered and shared!

  11. Michelle says

    November 24, 2017 at 2:49 pm

    I love seeing all of the beautiful stories of adoption and the ways that people feel inspired to help. Adoption has changed so much over the years and it is extremely sad that finances keep couples from fulfilling their dreams of becoming parents. I am adopted and I am very grateful to both my birth mom and my adoptive parents for their sacrifices and love.

  12. Kimberly says

    November 24, 2017 at 3:08 pm

    Thanks for sharing the beautiful adoption story, and for these awesome products!

  13. Sterling Jaquith says

    November 24, 2017 at 3:26 pm

    St. Catherine of Siena is definitely one of my favorite saints. I did the Endow study on her and it was amazing!!

  14. Bethanie Ryan says

    November 28, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    Thank you for sharing with us about this group! Two of my husband’s aunts have adopted babies with Down Syndrome and I would love to adopt someday myself (last time I asked, my husband wasn’t so sure). I love St. Catherine of Siena and she’s a great patron for just about anything!

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